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Type of Plays in BDSM

Last time I wrote about The ABC of BDSM and covered some very basic terminology, including: vanilla vs kink/fetish, BDSM, some basic roles in BDSM, what's a scene, safety protocols, and red flags. Before reading this post, make sure you read the first one. In The ABC of BDSM I also mentioned in passing the...

Podcast review: Safeword

Disclaimer: some mild NSFW middle of the page. Safeword: A Podcast with Mistress Eva and Dirk Hooper  Time for another podcast review!! In between Stuff to Blow Your Mind and The Guilty Feminist, I love to listen to a kinky podcast ... especially while being surrounded by unwittingly commuters on their way to work :)...

Season 2 of BONDiNG is out!

I don't do presents at Christmas. Everyone who knows me, knows this. I am a Grinch, really. It's true, I swear. It doesn't stop at my no-presents-policy... yes, that's right, no presents... why I don't do presents? maybe I was scarred by terrible *insert random item of clothing here* in the past? or maybe because...

The ABC of BDSM

In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let's break these down a little, and provide some definitions. After all, a refresher never hurts! Let's start with the basics... WHAT IS VANILLA SEX? Vanilla sex is regular sex. Basically, all sexual behaviour without any kink, fetish, or BDSM...

Wonder Women & BDSM

“Dr. Marston, Wonder Woman has drawn criticism for being full of deciptions of bondage, spanking, torture, homosexuality, and other sex perversions. Would you say that's a fair assessment of your work?” It's 1945, and a representative from the Child Study Association of America is interrogating Dr Marston. This is the opening of Professor Marston and...

Happy National Fetish Day!

Fetish fetish fetish...  such a misunderstood word. Fetish is simply a small (or large) obsession with an object - say handcuffs, latex, ropes, or anything that meets your fantasies - or a specific body part - boobs and bums here reign above all, but of course also feet, hands, eyes, tummies and so on. The...

Have you heard of BONDiNG?

bonding tv show
When I saw this, I could not believe my eyes! How amazing is this? Finally a TV Show that is not scared of openly talk about kinks, BDSM, and the fetish scene! This 3 hours gem (it's only 6 episodes, of about 15-18 minutes each) is available on Netflix and it's absolutely worth a watch....

Do you read comic books?

Wondering about Deviantart I came across this rather interesting comic book, and it literally captivate me... fancy a read? Here are chapters 1-5 available in PDF if you fancy flicking through it online, with individual images here. I would totally recommend this as a present too (maybe for your partner? ;) ), hard copies on...