Benching: Did they put you on a shelf or on a pedestal? Mixed signals, vague plans, and no progress… welcome to another situationship limbo.
Benching. Put on a shelf, not a Pedestal

Benching: Did they put you on a shelf or on a pedestal? Mixed signals, vague plans, and no progress… welcome to another situationship limbo.
Feeling lost in the dating forest? Don’t settle for breadcrumbs. Seek connections founded on mutual respect and genuine interest.
Most people have heard about the fight or flight response. But is that all we are capable of? Actually, we are capable of at least two more: freeze and fawn.
Sometime, those ghosts from hinge and bumble come back to haunt you, in the form of zombies. And what do you do? Let’s talk about that.
Because sometime, after receiving a compliment from a guy, I am left more confused than before. A story about negging and simple conversations.
We are talking about ‘ghosting’. Urban Dictionary definite as: When a person cuts off all communication with their friends or the person they’re dating, with zero warning or notice before hand. You’ll mostly see them avoiding friend’s phone calls, social media, and avoiding them in public.