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The ABC of BDSM

In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let's break these down a little, and provide some definitions. After all, a refresher never hurts! Let's start with the basics... WHAT IS VANILLA SEX? Vanilla sex is regular sex. Basically, all sexual behaviour without any kink, fetish, or BDSM...

Pride and Eurovision

This 2020 saw the cancellation of both, Eurovision and London Pride (damn you COVID). And this December, I felt a little nostalgic, and wanted to spend some time reminiscing on both. I wrote about Eurovision before, back in 2019 an Icelandic band, Hatari, made headlines with their song ‘Hate will prevail’. Full blog post here....

Workshop review: Pegging 101 by KK

I recently attended the Pegging 101 online workshop run by Killing Kittens (see their Hedonism party review here), and hosted by Lola Jean. What can I say... It was informative, unashamed, and highly practical, simply awesome ♥ Have you heard of Killing Kittens? I have reviewed one of their parties here (last one before lockdown!)...

Emma Watson talks about kink culture

This woman keeps rocking my world. “I’ve also kind of become slightly fascinated by kink culture because they are the best communicators ever. They know all about consent. They smash that stuff because they really have to get it — but we could all use those models; they’re actually really helpful models.”Emma Watson © Alasdair...

Wonder Women & BDSM

“Dr. Marston, Wonder Woman has drawn criticism for being full of deciptions of bondage, spanking, torture, homosexuality, and other sex perversions. Would you say that's a fair assessment of your work?” It's 1945, and a representative from the Child Study Association of America is interrogating Dr Marston. This is the opening of Professor Marston and...

Party review: Hedonism by KK

The Rules have Changed. A FEMALE-FIRST SOCIAL EXPERIENCE “Society wants you to fit into a mould. Find a man, get married, buy a house, have children... but what if you want something different in life? What if all you want is your freedom?”Anonymous guest at Hedonism Last night I have attended my first Hedonism party...

Happy National Fetish Day!

Fetish fetish fetish...  such a misunderstood word. Fetish is simply a small (or large) obsession with an object - say handcuffs, latex, ropes, or anything that meets your fantasies - or a specific body part - boobs and bums here reign above all, but of course also feet, hands, eyes, tummies and so on. The...

When Gucci does invites..

...and instead of an envelope you get this... View this post on Instagram The invitation for the #GucciFW19 fashion show by @alessandro_michele. Modelled like papier-mâché, a mask of Hermaphroditus, who in Greek mythology was said to be a two-sex child with a name compounded from his parents’ names Aphrodite and Hermes, and a symbol of...

Eurovision goes BDSM…

hatari band iceland
BDSM landed at Eurovision 2019!   The Icelandic band Hatari joined the world’s longest-running televised song competition with their latest song: 'Hate will prevail'. Shocking both spectators and judges this year, the soft-spoken band brings to the contest punk rock music, controversial politics, and an abundance of bondage and latex.   If you would like...

Do you read comic books?

Wondering about Deviantart I came across this rather interesting comic book, and it literally captivate me... fancy a read? Here are chapters 1-5 available in PDF if you fancy flicking through it online, with individual images here. I would totally recommend this as a present too (maybe for your partner? ;) ), hard copies on...