If you need to sin, sin big.* It's just sooooo good to go to a party and dance all night, almost like the past 18 months never happened... Last month, I attended a Fox&Badge party. You may remember of them when I blogged about a Fox Den Club social, and wrote a little around the...
Last time I wrote about The ABC of BDSM and covered some very basic terminology, including: vanilla vs kink/fetish, BDSM, some basic roles in BDSM, what's a scene, safety protocols, and red flags. Before reading this post, make sure you read the first one. In The ABC of BDSM I also mentioned in passing the...
Disclaimer: some mild NSFW middle of the page. Safeword: A Podcast with Mistress Eva and Dirk Hooper Time for another podcast review!! In between Stuff to Blow Your Mind and The Guilty Feminist, I love to listen to a kinky podcast ... especially while being surrounded by unwittingly commuters on their way to work :)...
First party review of 2021! Following the Social I reviewed last time, THE FOX DEN organised its own very first party - Victoriana - and it was just beautiful ♥ ♥ ♥ Victoriana was held in a gorgeous Victorian dispensary; originally built in 1858 in E1, it has since been turned into a luxurious private...
I started going back to the office again, which means that I have more time to listen to kinky podcasts on my commute! YAY! The S&M Chronicles: A Kink Podcast What is the podcast about? This podcast is about two New Yorkers, "S" and "M", and their journey into the BDSM scene. In each episode,...
There is a new sex-positive community in town. THE FOX DEN CLUB The Fox Den was founded in 2021, but don't let the year fool you. Behind this community there is a beautiful, charming, and fierce Irish woman who has strong roots in the kink and sex positive London community. Foxy (aka Sinead Mac Manus)...
It was 2019, when I heard bury a friend on youtube for the first time. I was randomly browsing random music, and I got so engrossed in it. Yeah, late to the party I know (see 2016 interview with Vogue), but I didn't stop there. I loved the song, the lyrics, the beat, and I...
It took me a long time to write this post. It's a collection of personal experiences before I discovered (read: acknowledged I was into) kink. I hope you enjoy the different point of view, I've never shared this much before. The other day, I was chatting to a friend, and I mentioned how I am looking...
Watched this the other day, and I can comfortably say I now have a kilt fetish. Uh. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Men in Kilts (@meninkiltsstarz) View this post on Instagram A post shared by Men in Kilts (@meninkiltsstarz) View this post on Instagram A post shared by Men in Kilts...
This lockdown 3.0, I have tried to do more walks. But since I am easily bored, I do cemeteries walks. Let's admit it, parks are boring. It's just grass everywhere. Tombstones, on the other side, are always a good read, charming, and I sometime feel like I am walking in a museum (remember the good...
In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let's break these down a little, and provide some definitions. After all, a refresher never hurts! Let's start with the basics... WHAT IS VANILLA SEX? Vanilla sex is regular sex. Basically, all sexual behaviour without any kink, fetish, or BDSM...
Sometimes I can't believe it's December already... and sometimes I feel like this year has been the longest I ever had to live through. Yet here we are. At the early stages of lockdown here in the UK, I wrote about the sex toys industry and how COVID-19 affected it. Then not long ago, I...
This 2020 saw the cancellation of both, Eurovision and London Pride (damn you COVID). And this December, I felt a little nostalgic, and wanted to spend some time reminiscing on both. I wrote about Eurovision before, back in 2019 an Icelandic band, Hatari, made headlines with their song ‘Hate will prevail’. Full blog post here....
I think I promised you an interview, didn't I? :) I thought I would look into a Brighton and Hove based charity, with 20+ years’ experience in providing support to women. Name: Oasis Project - registered charity number 1065503 Place and date of birth: Brighton, 1997 Job: Support women and their families who are affected...
In Great Britain (England, Wales and Scotland), the act of engaging in sex as part of an exchange of sexual services for money is legal.* *Yes, you read that correctly. Prostitution is LEGAL in most of the UK. In Northern Ireland paying for sex became illegal in 2015. Prostitution is the oldest profession in the...
As I continue to explore kink, BDSM, and whatnot, I decided to take a slightly more academic approach this time. Let's start by looking into the life of a real-life Dominatrix and her journey through the BDSM industry: Aleta Cai. Aleta Cai is a NY-based healer and dominatrix who, through Sacred BDSM, helps her clients...
UK Leather & Fetish Archive is an IG channel documenting and providing open access to the history of fetish, kink & BDSM in the UK. Right now, they are leading a survey for the fetish community; so I thought I would share the questionnaire and responses (from yours truly) with you :) Name: Kinky Tiger...
The healing power of BDSM When I hear the word healing, probably BDSM is not one of the first things that springs to my mind, and I bet that the same is true for many of you. It’s more likely that you will think of doctors, hospitals or even meditation and acupuncture if you are...
“Dr. Marston, Wonder Woman has drawn criticism for being full of deciptions of bondage, spanking, torture, homosexuality, and other sex perversions. Would you say that's a fair assessment of your work?” It's 1945, and a representative from the Child Study Association of America is interrogating Dr Marston. This is the opening of Professor Marston and...
The Rules have Changed. A FEMALE-FIRST SOCIAL EXPERIENCE “Society wants you to fit into a mould. Find a man, get married, buy a house, have children... but what if you want something different in life? What if all you want is your freedom?”Anonymous guest at Hedonism Last night I have attended my first Hedonism party...
Fetish fetish fetish... such a misunderstood word. Fetish is simply a small (or large) obsession with an object - say handcuffs, latex, ropes, or anything that meets your fantasies - or a specific body part - boobs and bums here reign above all, but of course also feet, hands, eyes, tummies and so on. The...
...and instead of an envelope you get this... View this post on Instagram The invitation for the #GucciFW19 fashion show by @alessandro_michele. Modelled like papier-mâché, a mask of Hermaphroditus, who in Greek mythology was said to be a two-sex child with a name compounded from his parents’ names Aphrodite and Hermes, and a symbol of...
BDSM landed at Eurovision 2019! The Icelandic band Hatari joined the world’s longest-running televised song competition with their latest song: 'Hate will prevail'. Shocking both spectators and judges this year, the soft-spoken band brings to the contest punk rock music, controversial politics, and an abundance of bondage and latex. If you would like...
Wondering about Deviantart I came across this rather interesting comic book, and it literally captivate me... fancy a read? Here are chapters 1-5 available in PDF if you fancy flicking through it online, with individual images here. I would totally recommend this as a present too (maybe for your partner? ;) ), hard copies on...
