Benching: Did they put you on a shelf or on a pedestal? Mixed signals, vague plans, and no progress… welcome to another situationship limbo.
Benching. Put on a shelf, not a Pedestal

Benching: Did they put you on a shelf or on a pedestal? Mixed signals, vague plans, and no progress… welcome to another situationship limbo.
Merry Kinkmas! 2024 was a mix of heartache, joy, and kinky adventures. Thank you, community, for your love, laughs, and solidarity. Here’s to 2025! 🖤
A podcast about sex of all kinds with Jamie! All episodes are pretty different and cover various topics, so these are great if you are looking for something specific 🙂
Feeling lost in the dating forest? Don’t settle for breadcrumbs. Seek connections founded on mutual respect and genuine interest.
I’ve reviewed some fun places in Amsterdam, and then I thought… why not review one of the longest, most established, fetish shop in London and the UK?
Explored Amsterdam’s Red Light District and visited the Museum of Prostitution – insightful, interactive, and set in a historic brothel. A must-see!
Explored Amsterdam’s Red Light District and visited the Museum of Prostitution – insightful, interactive, and set in a historic brothel. A must-see!
Last week in Amsterdam, I enjoyed Pride, partied, and visited Mister B, a famous fetish shop known for its leather, rubber, and BDSM gear. It was pretty cool!
An harness for pegging that is fully adjustable, and it comes with a handy little bag so that it doesn’t get tangled up in your drawer. Genius.
50 Shades of Kink is compact, pocket size, and focuses on demystifies BDSM myths, emphasizes consent, and offers practical advice for new kinksters. Enjoy!
This June, a new Association was born. They decided to throw a party. I went. Wanna hear about the inaugural event of S+ Association at Electrowerkz?
A podcast about candid talks on sex and aging with The Hotbed Collective! Fun, informative, bridge the gap between generations.
Because sometime I stumble into an old sold, and I fall into a wormhole of movies and Japanese anime in search of the exit. Or the restroom.
Decided to write about the Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin. Take, Allow, Serve, Accept – each slice guides us to pleasure.
This Korean movie si about two co-workers who enter a contractual relationship as partners as Dom and sub. And they are just so very cute.
Instagram deleted my account, and since I cannot share these sexy bunnies on there, here they are. The account is shadow-banned, click on the link. Enjoy!
Do you remember when I wrote about Pegging? That was after I attended a workshop by a NY-based dominatrix… who has a podcast with his ex lover.
What if your gf cheats on you with your best friend, you boss fires you, everything sucks, and you decide to make some changes in your life?
Because sometime, after receiving a compliment from a guy, I am left more confused than before. A story about negging and simple conversations.
What if you had so much space (does that ever happen in London I wonder?) that you can spare a whole room and turn it into a sex room?
Do you know what consent and fries have in common? Let’s find out with a fun graphic (and maybe a video too). Enjoy!
Looks like 2021 predictions were right… I guess this year wasn’t completely bad after all.
We were always kinky. We just needed an excuse to do kinky things to cure *insert random reason*. Read to know more…
It has been a while since I wrote reviews about KK parties or workshops so I thought of writing about their podcast, published during our first lockdown.
Thrilled to be able to interview a professional dominatrix, a BDSM educator, and a fetish club promoter, who’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! How exciting!
This podcast is hosted by the Financial Times. It’s about porn, power, and profit. I recommend a listen if you want to hear the real story, full of surprises!
‘Rocco’ is a 2016 French documentary film, co-directed by Thierry Demaizière and Alban Teurlai. About a porn-star, who made history in Italy.
Glow West is a series of interviews with academics, sex educators, sex workers, activists, and more, discussing sex, sexuality, and the body.
Sex Education is a feel good, wholesome, and honest show about a bunch of students at this fictitious American-looking school in the British countryside.
While chatting to a friend, she mentioned a tv show from the ’00, about a sex worker, that I hadn’t heard of before: The Secret Diary of a Call Girl…
Today I wanted to cover pegging in a little more details, with all the steps, so I present you: MORE ABOUT PEGGING! Enjoy
At the early stages of lockdown here in the UK, I wrote about the sex toys industry and how COVID-19 affected it. Then not long ago, I wrote about the sex work industry and how COVID-19 changed it.
I think I promised you an interview, didn’t I? ?
I thought I would look into a Brighton and Hove based charity, with 20+ years’ experience in providing support to women.
In Great Britain (England, Wales and Scotland), the act of engaging in sex as part of an exchange of sexual services for money is legal.*
With a global pandemic in progress, and many of us at home full-time, it’s no surprise sex toys made the news on multiple occasions.
Last night I have attended my first Hedonism party by Killing Kittens (KK).
Before I tell you all about my three-ways with two other girls, let me tell you more about KK.