Party review: Alice in DoxaLand by Doxa
kinkytiger A kinky party review for Doxa’s Alice in DoxaLand: a queer, sex-positive play party with…
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I just wanted to write about kink…
I wanted to spend time writing about kink. Instead, I became a web developer, cybersecurity…
Event review: Academy of Obedience by Lady Topaz
Gold stars, strict teachers and obedient students. Here's my review of Academy of Obedience at…
TV review: Euphoria – love it or hate it?
Euphoria started in 2019, and it shocked the audience with Gen Z and their relations…
Are trigger words political?
Trigger words started off as a trauma tool, but ended up n culture wars. What…
JTKC part 2 got an upgrade!
This might sound strange, but this week's blog post, is actually an old post that,…
Event review: Transgression by Miss Jayne
What happens when a fetish party takes over a former church? Read my event review…
TV review: Miracle Workers (dance, you sl*t)
From Tom Holland in heels and corset to Daniel Radcliffe in glitter chaps and fluffy…
Event review: The London Femdom Soiree by Lady Isla
Presenting you The London Femdom Soirée, an event review about female laughter and males submission,…
TV review: Heated Rivalry (because hot men)
Heated Rivalry is well directed, wonderfully written, perfectly casted, and its message is one of…
Party review: Carnival of Creatures by Pinky Promise
A kinky party review for a wildly imaginative, consent-focused event combining playful costumes, workshops, dungeon…
Guest Event review: B*tches UnleaSHEd in Bury
Event review for Bitches UnleaSHEd, a judgement-free event where Dominant Females reign supreme and submissives…
Diabolo for kink shopping in Amsterdam
Last month in Amsterdam, I enjoyed sunny weather, parties, and some very kink shopping experience,…
Not an April’s Fools, instead just good news!
Catcalling is now a crime in the UK. A step towards safety, accountability, and recognising…
Event review: Valentines in Amsterdam
Wet Playground’s Valentine’s Big Edition, listed via Kitty Guide, took place in Amsterdam on the…
Tilda Swinton at the Eye Museum in Amsterdam
The Eye Museum in Amsterdam held an exhibition on the famous Scottish actress, performer, artist,…
Erwin Olaf at the Stedelijk Museum in Amsterdam
Three years ago, Erwin Olaf passed away. The Stedelijk Museum in Amsterdam held an exhibition…
TV review: Heartstopper (and queer things)
Here is a TV review for Heartstopper! Some tender queer joy with shadows beneath—like a…
Fantasy or reality. Which one do you want?
Kinky dating and how submissive men care more about the fantasy than you, and I…
Movie review: Pillion (gosh, I love both of them)
More BDSM with a movie review! Pillion stars Alexander Skarsgård & Harry Melling with intense…
This is my out of office while on holiday!
I am currently bingeing on panettone (and kinky tv shows) while on holiday. Back next…
Event review: Sunday Worship
A thoughtful, ceremonial femdom event review with cacao, grounding rituals and consent-led play that creates…
Organise the event you want to see
Not every kink event fits your fantasy. So why not create one that does? Make…
Social review: Even more munches in London
Decided to review even more munches in London, since there is just so many to…
Flogging… erm, I mean Flagging. As in Flags.
Dating is messy, but knowing dating flags can help spot the good, the bad, and…
Unicorns: mythical or misunderstood?
Unicorns in polyamory: let's explore the dynamics, challenges, and best practices of unicorn relationships/triads and…
Just for fun: What kind of kinky are you?
Shall we take a look at 'what kind of kinky' we are? We could put…
Gender identities and “labels”
Gender isn’t binary. It’s a personal truth to respect. Like with titles, please honour pronouns…
Shopping: Burlesque nipple tassels
Today is throwback time to when I bought a pair of nipple tassels from Trixie…
Sabrina Carpenter’s Album Cover: My Thoughts
Sabrina Carpenter’s new album cover is sexy, provocative, and self-aware. She’s playing with the idea…
Movie review: Babygirl (glass of milk anyone?)
Babygirl: a raw, erotic drama exploring BDSM dynamics, office fantasies, and the power of older…
JTKC part 9: Using FetLife by WolfWinks
I am pleased to present you Joining the Kink Community part 9, by Wolf Wonks,…
TV review and Empathy Crisis: Adolescence
TV review for Netflix’s Adolescence exposes toxic gender roles, cancel culture, and our empathy crisis.…
Kink community: Vicky from Bondatrix
Interviewing someone who’s running a business within the kink community, Vicky, owner of Bondatrix, performer,…
Event review: The Cruel Huntress
Review of May's The Cruel Huntress: Why hunt animals when you can hunt humans? Read…
Movie review: Unicorns
Interested in visiting the world of a gaysian drag queen, in a gritty, tender, and…
Podcast Review: The Receipts Podcast
Review of 'The Receipts Podcast' with Join Tolly T & Audrey on honest, unfiltered chats…
Power, play, and history of Female Domination
Why being under Her spell might be exactly where you belong: Exploring the power, play,…
TV review: Outlander (more kilt stuff)
Sexy men in kilts, steamy period sex, and time-travelling slow-burn kink. Come for the tartan,…
Talk review: The Psychology of Fetish & Kink
A deep dive into the psychology of kink and fetish with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey…
Kink community: Anita Cassidy, from Alethya
Interviewing a friend and published author, Anita Cassidy. Meet the woman behind the novel Appetite,…
How to look after your own latex got upgraded!
Here are three steps to look after latex: WEAR IT, WASH IT, and STORE IT.…
JTKC part 8: Be an active member
Become an ambassador and share your experiences to strengthen the kink community, foster belonging, and…
Benching. Put on a shelf, not a Pedestal
Benching: Did they put you on a shelf or on a pedestal? Mixed signals, vague…
Latex news: Hannah Waddingham in Atsuko Kudo
Hannah Waddingham dazzled at the Venom: The Last Dance premiere in a bold black latex…
Kink community: Louise Payn, Fitness Domme
Explore Fitness Domination with Louise Payn, a Domme blending fitness, yoga, and kink to empower…
Merry Kinkmas and a Happy 2025
Merry Kinkmas! 2024 was a mix of heartache, joy, and kinky adventures. Thank you, community,…
Podcast Review: Let’s talk about sex Jamie
A podcast about sex of all kinds with Jamie! All episodes are pretty different and…
Event review: Le Boutique Bazaar
Review of October's Le Boutique Bazaar: London's finest underground fashion. Shopping, socialising, and kink with…
Kink community: Derek, Club Pedestal’s organiser
Interview with Club Pedestal's organiser, Derek, on being a women-adoring submissive, the London's FemDom community,…
Breadcrumbing. Not just for fairytales
Feeling lost in the dating forest? Don't settle for breadcrumbs. Seek connections founded on mutual…
Party review: Club Femdom
Club Femdom returned to The Hatch last August for a night of elegance, power, and…
35 yrs of fetish shopping in London and the UK
I've reviewed some fun places in Amsterdam, and then I thought… why not review one…
Social review: More munches in London
Decided to review even more munches in London, since there is just so many to…
The Sex Museum in Amsterdam
Explored Amsterdam's Red Light District and visited the Museum of Prostitution - insightful, interactive, and…
The Red Light District in Amsterdam
Explored Amsterdam's Red Light District and visited the Museum of Prostitution - insightful, interactive, and…
30 yrs of fetish shopping in Amsterdam
Last week in Amsterdam, I enjoyed Pride, partied, and visited Mister B, a famous fetish…
Shopping: Pegging Joque strap-on
An harness for pegging that is fully adjustable, and it comes with a handy little…
Book Review: 50 Shades of Kink
50 Shades of Kink is compact, pocket size, and focuses on demystifies BDSM myths, emphasizes…
S+ Association launch party
This June, a new Association was born. They decided to throw a party. I went.…
Just for fun: Consent is like tea
I am a tea lover. I don't even drink coffee. So when I saw this,…
A warrior princess from the 90s
After She-Ra, let's move to Xena! Another fantastic heroine that smashed the 90s with queer…
A warrior princess from the 80s
Rediscover the magic of She-Ra and He-Man, iconic 80s heroes, now rebooted on Netflix for…
Podcast Review: The Hotbed
A podcast about candid talks on sex and aging with The Hotbed Collective! Fun, informative,…
Lolita, Japan, and American Beauty
Because sometime I stumble into an old sold, and I fall into a wormhole of…
Latex news: Beyonce in chocolate cowboy
Beyonce kicking ass with a latex outfit when announcing her new record!
What do you know about tantra?
My answer would be 'very little'! So I decided to ask an expert, someone who…
Have you heard of the Wheel of Consent?
Decided to write about the Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin. Take, Allow, Serve, Accept…
Kink community: Meet Cosmic, LAM’s organiser
Interviewing the mind behind London Alternative Market. Cosmic, someone with a rather controversial reputation, and…
Have you heard of the F words?
Most people have heard about the fight or flight response. But is that all we…
Podcast review: Pink Kink
The podcasters are two cisgender women and BDSM practitioners, and one of them own a…
JTKC part 7: Where to buy an outfit
Getting an outfit ready for a party in the kink community can be quite intimidating,…
Five years ago I did a thing
5 years ago I started blogging … and I never stopped. So here I am…
Latex news: remember the movie Underworld?
Remember when Kate Beckinsale wore that black latex outfit in Underworld? And went she wore…
Party review: Reverse launch party
A new event is on the horizon for you thirsty kinksters! Quench has arrived to…
Movie review: Love & Leashes
This Korean movie si about two co-workers who enter a contractual relationship as partners as…
Kink community: Meet Alice Hunter
Interviewing a swinger, blogger, and published author: Alice Hunter. Meet the woman behind Unicorns and…
Zombieing. Because Halloween is coming
Sometime, those ghosts from hinge and bumble come back to haunt you, in the form…
Latex news: Paco Rabanne had a rather eclectic 2023
Felt like I needed to share Paco Rabanne Spring Summer 2023 collection, as it's pretty…
Charmskool + Erotic Art Exhibition in London
This September, I spent the weekend out and about with a friend, browsing around between…
Kink community: Meet Miss Pixie Mills
Interviewing an old school Dominatrix, Governess, Dungeon Monitor for Club Pedestal. She's one of the…
JTKC part 6 got an upgrade!
This might sound strange, but this week's blog post, is actually my last blog post.…
JTKC part 6: getting your party outfits on
Figuring out what to wear at a party can be quite intimidating, so what are…
Book review: The Mistress Manual by Lorelei
Review of a guide on Domestic Discipline, which is basically the enactment of drama/fantasy, within…
Latex news: how hot is Salma Hayek in that?
Because I am (not so) secretly in LOVE with Salma Hayek, and she wore a…
Pop up review: Charmskool in Soho
You want to go to a party and need an outfit? Pop ups are the…
Podcast review: Loving BDSM
A podcast by Kayla Lords (a female sub) and John Brownstone (a male Dom) sharing…
Party review: Quench – Magical & Mythical
A new event is on the horizon for you thirsty kinksters! Quench has arrived to…
Just for fun: How kinky are you test? (and archetypes)
Last year I wrote about how we are all getting kinkier, but 'how kinky' are…
Latex news: Kim Petras & Nicki Minaj latex combo
Because I am a sucker for celebrities collabs, and they have released a single, and…
Party review: Valentines at Torture Garden
Another review for Torture Garden parties, this time, since it was Valentine's, I went for…
Happy bunny holiday everyone!
Instagram deleted my account, and since I cannot share these sexy bunnies on there, here…
Podcast review: Is our love___?
Do you remember when I wrote about Pegging? That was after I attended a workshop…
Movie review: Unconventional romantic comedy anyone?
What if your gf cheats on you with your best friend, you boss fires you,…
Compliment or insult? You be the judge.
Because sometime, after receiving a compliment from a guy, I am left more confused than…
TV review: The Mary Poppins of Sex Rooms
What if you had so much space (does that ever happen in London I wonder?)…
Just for fun: Consent and FRIES
Do you know what consent and fries have in common? Let's find out with a…
FASHION: What did I learn in 2022?
Looks like, once again, Marilyn Monroe was a trend setter beyond her time... The NAKED…
We are getting kinkier after all
Looks like 2021 predictions were right... I guess this year wasn't completely bad after all.
JTKC part 5: getting ready to go to a party
Found a kinky party you like... are you going solo? With a friend? What are…
Party review: Halloween at Torture Garden
Torture Garden has been going on for 30+ years, and since the last one I…
Kink community: Meet the Kink Shrink
Time for an interview with a therapist, a BDSM and sex educator that's been in…
Just for fun: miracle cures in the 1800s
We were always kinky. We just needed an excuse to do kinky things to cure…
JTKC part 4: pick a kinky party that works for you
You want to go to your first kinky party... how do you find the right…
Podcast review: The Naked Truth by KK
It has been a while since I wrote reviews about KK parties or workshops so…
Kink community: a London-based Dominatrix
Thrilled to be able to interview a professional dominatrix, a BDSM educator, and a fetish…
Podcast review: Hot Money
This podcast is hosted by the Financial Times. It’s about porn, power, and profit. I…
Book review: 101 Kinky Things by Kate Sloan
Need some inspiration? That's the book for you! This book is simple, short, and direct…
When an Italian porn actor stars in a documentary…
'Rocco' is a 2016 French documentary film, co-directed by Thierry Demaizière and Alban Teurlai. About…
Happy BDSM Day!!
Did you know that July 24th is International BDSM Day? YAY! How are you celebrating?…
Podcast review: Glow West
Glow West is a series of interviews with academics, sex educators, sex workers, activists, and…
Latex news: Gimp masks at the Stock Exchange?
What has gimp masks and takes place at the Stock Exchange?
Event review: La Clique
Do you love circus? Live performers? Great cabaret? Pimms? That's definitely the place for you…
JTKC part 3: meet kinksters online and take a good dick pic
Welcome to part 3 of joining the kink community! Bonus content: 5 tips to take…
Just for fun: Kink Map!
Have you ever wondered how many kinks and fetishes are out there? Let's travel using…
Just for fun: skimpy undies for men? yes please!
I would kill for a sexy man in sexy undies (I would kill a spider,…
Podcast review: Off the Cuffs
Off the Cuffs: a Kink & BDSM Podcast, for those in the lifestyle and those…
Party review: Thirst Friday
I don’t know about you, but I am a sucker for 90s rock. And even…
Party review: Valentine’s Noir by Nude Noir
Nude Noir events are said to be playful and seductive, in refined and decadent venues…
Just for fun: dreadful DMs from FetLife
Here are some messages I have received on FL that are simply dreadful. Thought I'd…
Party review: The Fox Den Winter Wonderland
Following the Social I reviewed last time, THE FOX DEN organised its own very first…
JTKC part 2: online messaging
You decided that you're ready, and want to join the kink community. What’s next? Recently…
JTKC part 1: creating an online profile
You decided you want to check out your local kink community… Now what? Some steps…
Social Review: Munches in London
After my last post on Munches: dos and don'ts, where I covered what a munch…
Are we getting kinkier?
The other day I came across a very interesting article by Vice about how demand…
Party review: Club Pedestal
Club Pedestal is a FemDom club, and it’s defined as the London’s playground for dominant…
Party review: Black at The Mansion
This year I managed to get tickets to one of my most-loved event organisers: The…
Munches: dos and don’ts
Right. Let’s start with a couple of basic things: What is a Munch? and What…
Ghost stories this Halloween
We are talking about ‘ghosting’. Urban Dictionary definite as: When a person cuts off all…
Party review: Fox&Badge Sin
Fox&Badge have been running sexy parties in London for over six years, bringing their hedonistic…
Types of Play in BDSM
But what is BDSM play? Play means different things to different people. Today, I wanted…
TV review: Sex education for all
Sex Education is a feel good, wholesome, and honest show about a bunch of students…
Podcast review: Safeword
Time for another podcast review!! Safeword: A Podcast with Mistress Eva and Dirk Hooper
Workshop review: Domming 101 by KK
Killing Kittens and Lola Jean present: Domming 101
Party review: The Fox Den Victoriana
Following the Social I reviewed last time, THE FOX DEN organised its own very first…
Podcast review: S&M Chronicles
I started going back to the office again, which means that I have more time…
Social review: The Fox Den Skulk
There is a new sex-positive community in town. THE FOX DEN CLUB. The Fox Den…
TV review: Diary of a sex worker
While chatting to a friend, she mentioned a tv show from the ’00, about a…
More about pegging!
Today I wanted to cover pegging in a little more details, with all the steps,…
What if superheros were fucking diabolical?
What is The Boys? The Boys is a comic book series set in the mid…
Latex news: Billie Eilish wearing Atsuko Kudo and Alexander McQueen
It was 2019, when I heard bury a friend on youtube for the first time.…
The coming of age show that mocks coming of age
Quick one, have you watched Big Month? You know, the one that openly talks about…
Why I feel safer in a fetish club than a bar
It took me a long time to write this post. It’s a collection of personal…
TV review: 3 words: men in kilts
Watched this the other day, and I can comfortably say I now have a kilt…
Podcast review: Proud to be kinky
Proud to be kinky is a fun podcast covering the social and interpersonal side of…
TV review: Season 2 of BONDiNG is out!
Last Christmas, I got a present I didn’t know I wanted ? ♥ BONDiNG –…
Latex news: How to look after your latex
Here are three steps on how to look after latex: WEAR IT, WASH IT, and…
TV review: Sex & the City – Millennial Edition
Here is a show about young millennial, living in NY, working for a fashion magazine,…
The ABC of BDSM
In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought,…
TV review: More chilling adventures!
I decided to binge-watch Chilling Adventures of Sabrina because I love the actress and the…
Workshop review: Dirty Talk by KK (and so much more!)
Happy New Year! YAY, 2020 is over! Now that’s out of the way… Let’s start…
COVID-19, Only Fans, sex, and some Bella Thorne drama
At the early stages of lockdown here in the UK, I wrote about the sex…
Pride and Eurovision
This 2020 saw the cancellation of both, Eurovision and London Pride (damn you COVID). And…
Happy Birthday RuPaul
Just wanted to say congrats to RuPaul, who after being the first ever Drag Queen…
TV review: The category is Live, work, POSE!
What are you looking at? I’ll tell you what you're looking at. You're looking at…
How much do you know about the UK sex industry? – PART 2
I think I promised you an interview, didn’t I? I thought I would look into…
How much do you know about the UK sex industry? – PART 1
In Great Britain (England, Wales and Scotland), the act of engaging in sex as part…
Podcast review: Ginsult
Whether you are going for a walk, running errands, or doing something I would never…
Latex news: does YSL AW20 reminds you of Club Kids too? or is it just me?
Honestly, I don’t know about you, but Saint Laurent Autumn/Winter 20 collection tastes like BDSM,…
Book review: Pro-Domme by Aleta Cai
Aleta Cai is a NY-based healer and dominatrix who, through Sacred BDSM, helps her clients…
Latex news: Latex for Gaga – UPDATED
Like everyone else (right?), I love Lady Gaga. So I thought I would share some…
Would you like to get to know me?
UK Leather & Fetish Archive is an IG channel documenting and providing open access to…
Art & Fashion: Bob Carlos Clarke
16 years have passed since Bob Carlos Clarke’s last exhibition in 2004 at The Little…
Latex news: Inflatable trousers
I think it’s been a while since I last posted about latex… Earlier this year…
Workshop review: Introduction to Shibari by KK
I joined Introduction to Shibari by Killing Kittens, hosted by Gregg Hiigara and Mili-fecent ?
Men dominated the sex toys industry.. I feel change cumming
With a global pandemic in progress, and many of us at home full-time, it’s no…
Workshop review: Pegging 101 by KK
I recently attended the Pegging 101 online workshop run by Killing Kittens (see their Hedonism…
Emma Watson talks about kink culture
Emma Watson is an English actress, model and activist. We all know here as Hermione…
Fashion (& life): Apply #doesitsparkjoy to more than just things
Since it looks like we are all going to be home for a little while…
Countdown to Halloween with Christine
So I re-watched the whole TV series ‘The Curious Creations of Christine McConnell‘ – available…
Latex news: Lockdown edition
As we are all doing the social distancing during lockdown, I thought I would share…
Burlesque: Some History
Today I thought of writing about Burlesque! Burlesque, which derives from the Italian ‘burlesco’ meaning…
Movie review: Wonder Women & BDSM
This is the story of Professor Marston and the Wonder Women, an American biographical drama…
Party review: Hedonism by KK
Last night I have attended my first Hedonism party by Killing Kittens (KK). Before I…
Art & Fashion: Tim Walker edition..
Following my last blog of the Alexander McQueen exhibition, now it’s Tim Walker‘s turn ?
Party review: Another AWESOME Rumpus event!
Last Friday, I popped over to the The Islington Metal Works for the first Rumpus…
First Drag Queen to ever be on the cover of Vanity Fair!
It’s official, 2020 started with a BANG and with RuPaul (12 Seasons on Netflix here)…
Happy National Fetish Day!
Fetish is simply a small (or large) obsession with an object – say handcuffs, latex,…
Chilling adventures awaits us this 2020
Some people are doing vegan or dry January, others are Marie-Kondo their house, and I…
Fashion: What did I learn this 2019?
2019 is coming to an end, and the new ’20s are about to start… What…
When Gucci does invites..
When Gucci does invites..
Fashion: Reminiscing over Alexander McQueen…
Alexander McQueen is always been such an eccentric and charismatic artist, threading on the edge…
The love of a 17 yo me, 17 years ago…
Fell in love with Christina in 2002 with her album Stripped, and yet I have…
Latex news: What does a car wearing latex look like?
Did you see that audacious Autumn/Winter 2016 Fashion Campaign and Film by Mercedes-Benz? The one…
Party review: Wilderness Festival 2019
What a festival that was… still buzzing!! Recommend a go with your mates; at least…
Scarlett Johansson wears Atsuko Kudo
Just watching Ghost in the Shell online and realised that Scarlett Johasson is wearing an…
Eurovision goes BDSM…
BDSM landed at Eurovision 2019! The Icelandic band Hatari joined the world’s longest-running televised song…
Latex news: Thought I saw this dress before…
Was flickling through the issue of Bazaar mentioned in my previous post, and saw this…
Latex news: Bazaar cover girl Sophie Turner
I mean, if Sophie Turner wearing LATEX on the cover page of Bazaar doesn't make…
TV review: Have you heard of BONDiNG?
Finally a TV Show that's not scared of talking about kinks, BDSM, and fetish! This…
Katy Perry and her love for latex
Just a bunch of videos of Katy Perry wearing latex :) enjoy!
Do you read comic books?
Wondering about Deviantart I came across this rather interesting comic book, and it literally captivate…
We all know Rihanna is cool.. but this?
Literally MIND-BLOWN.
Party review: What I did last Friday…
Last weekend, I popped over to the The Islington Metal Works to bid farewell to…
This total badass… Ezra Miller on Playboy. Oh yeah.
Shall we talk about how sexy this guy is? I admired him in ‘We need…
Can Bad Blood improve your fashion taste?
CAN BAD BLOOD IMPROVE YOUR FASHION TASTE? The answer is duh-uh! And Taylor Swift proved…
Queen meet Queen
Because if there was someone who could have gotten away with wearing latex when meeting…