Why being under Her spell might be exactly where you belong: Exploring the power, play, and history of Female Domination.
Power, play, and history of Female Domination
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Benching. Put on a shelf, not a Pedestal
Benching: Did they put you on a shelf or on a pedestal? Mixed signals, vague plans, and no progress… welcome to another situationship limbo.
Merry Kinkmas and a Happy 2025
Merry Kinkmas! 2024 was a mix of heartache, joy, and kinky adventures. Thank you, community, for your love, laughs, and solidarity. Here’s to 2025! 🖤
Breadcrumbing. Not just for fairy tales.
Feeling lost in the dating forest? Don’t settle for breadcrumbs. Seek connections founded on mutual respect and genuine interest.
Just for fun: Consent is like tea
I am a tea lover. I don’t even drink coffee. So when I saw this, I HAD to write about it. I hope you enjoy it 🙂 take care
What do you know about tantra?
My answer would be ‘very little’! So I decided to ask an expert, someone who is a professional in his field, for his insights and experiences.
Have you heard of the Wheel of Consent?
Decided to write about the Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin. Take, Allow, Serve, Accept – each slice guides us to pleasure.
Have you heard of the F words?
Most people have heard about the fight or flight response. But is that all we are capable of? Actually, we are capable of at least two more: freeze and fawn.
Five years ago I did a thing
5 years ago I started blogging… and I never stopped.
Zombieing. Because Halloween is coming
Sometime, those ghosts from hinge and bumble come back to haunt you, in the form of zombies. And what do you do? Let’s talk about that.
Compliment or insult? You be the judge.
Because sometime, after receiving a compliment from a guy, I am left more confused than before. A story about negging and simple conversations.
Ghost stories this Halloween
We are talking about ‘ghosting’. Urban Dictionary definite as: When a person cuts off all communication with their friends or the person they’re dating, with zero warning or notice before hand. You’ll mostly see them avoiding friend’s phone calls, social media, and avoiding them in public.
Types of Play in BDSM
But what is play? Play means different things to different people. Today, I wanted to share my personal perspective on the different types of PLAY…
More about pegging!
Today I wanted to cover pegging in a little more details, with all the steps, so I present you: MORE ABOUT PEGGING! Enjoy
Why I feel safer in a fetish club than a bar
It took me a long time to write this post. It’s a collection of personal experiences before I discovered (read: acknowledged I was into) kink.
I hope you enjoy the different point of view, I’ve never shared this much before.
The ABC of BDSM
In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let’s break these down a little, and provide some definitions.