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kinkytiger Catcalling is now a crime in the UK. A step towards safety, accountability, and recognising…
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Fantasy or reality. Which one do you want?
When submissive men care more about the fantasy than about you, and I need to…
Organise the event you want to see
Not every kink event fits your fantasy. So why not create one that does? Make…
Power, play, and history of Female Domination
Why being under Her spell might be exactly where you belong: Exploring the power, play,…
Benching. Put on a shelf, not a Pedestal
Benching: Did they put you on a shelf or on a pedestal? Mixed signals, vague…
Merry Kinkmas and a Happy 2025
Merry Kinkmas! 2024 was a mix of heartache, joy, and kinky adventures. Thank you, community,…
Breadcrumbing. Not just for fairytales
Feeling lost in the dating forest? Don't settle for breadcrumbs. Seek connections founded on mutual…
Just for fun: Consent is like tea
I am a tea lover. I don't even drink coffee. So when I saw this,…
What do you know about tantra?
My answer would be 'very little'! So I decided to ask an expert, someone who…
Have you heard of the Wheel of Consent?
Decided to write about the Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin. Take, Allow, Serve, Accept…
Have you heard of the F words?
Most people have heard about the fight or flight response. But is that all we…
Five years ago I did a thing
5 years ago I started blogging… and I never stopped.
Zombieing. Because Halloween is coming
Sometime, those ghosts from hinge and bumble come back to haunt you, in the form…
Compliment or insult? You be the judge.
Because sometime, after receiving a compliment from a guy, I am left more confused than…
Ghost stories this Halloween
We are talking about ‘ghosting’. Urban Dictionary definite as: When a person cuts off all…
Types of Play in BDSM
But what is play? Play means different things to different people. Today, I wanted to…
More about pegging!
Today I wanted to cover pegging in a little more details, with all the steps,…
Why I feel safer in a fetish club than a bar
It took me a long time to write this post. It’s a collection of personal…
The ABC of BDSM
In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought,…