Last time I wrote about The ABC of BDSM and covered some very basic terminology, including: vanilla vs kink/fetish, BDSM, some basic roles in BDSM, what's a scene, safety protocols, and red flags. Before reading this post, make sure you read the first one. In The ABC of BDSM I also mentioned in passing the...
Not long ago, I wrote about the Pegging 101 online workshop, run by Killing Kittens (see their Hedonism party review here). Today I wanted to cover pegging in a little more details, so I present you: MORE ABOUT PEGGING! Let's start with the basics, and then expand a little: The what and the who: pegging is...
It took me a long time to write this post. It's a collection of personal experiences before I discovered (read: acknowledged I was into) kink. I hope you enjoy the different point of view, I've never shared this much before. The other day, I was chatting to a friend, and I mentioned how I am looking...
In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let's break these down a little, and provide some definitions. After all, a refresher never hurts! Let's start with the basics... WHAT IS VANILLA SEX? Vanilla sex is regular sex. Basically, all sexual behaviour without any kink, fetish, or BDSM...
The healing power of BDSM When I hear the word healing, probably BDSM is not one of the first things that springs to my mind, and I bet that the same is true for many of you. It’s more likely that you will think of doctors, hospitals or even meditation and acupuncture if you are...
It's pandemic-blog-writing today. I think Covid-19 is now the biggest epidemic since HIV/AIDS, which killed over 32 millions people since the 1920s (and counting..). On that happy note, and with a government lockdown in place, I can confidently say that my party-review posts will be on hold indefinitely. This means, that my upcoming blog posts...
