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Social review: Even more munches in London
Decided to review even more munches in London, since there is just so many to…
Flogging… erm, I mean Flagging. As in Flags.
Dating is messy, but knowing dating flags can help spot the good, the bad, and…
JTKC part 9: Using FetLife by WolfWinks
I am pleased to present you Joining the Kink Community part 9, by Wolf Wonks,…
TV review and Empathy Crisis: Adolescence
TV review for Netflix’s Adolescence exposes toxic gender roles, cancel culture, and our empathy crisis.…
JTKC part 8: Be an active member
Become an ambassador and share your experiences to strengthen the kink community, foster belonging, and…
Social review: More munches in London
Decided to review even more munches in London, since there is just so many to…
Zombieing. Because Halloween is coming
Sometime, those ghosts from hinge and bumble come back to haunt you, in the form…
JTKC part 5: getting ready to go to a party
Found a kinky party you like... are you going solo? With a friend? What are…
JTKC part 4: pick a kinky party that works for you
You want to go to your first kinky party... how do you find the right…
Happy BDSM Day!!
Did you know that July 24th is International BDSM Day? YAY! How are you celebrating?…
JTKC part 3: meet kinksters online and take a good dick pic
Welcome to part 3 of joining the kink community! Bonus content: 5 tips to take…
Just for fun: dreadful DMs from FetLife
Here are some messages I have received on FL that are simply dreadful. Thought I'd…
JTKC part 2: online messaging
You decided that you're ready, and want to join the kink community. What’s next? Recently…
JTKC part 1: creating an online profile
You decided you want to check out your local kink community… Now what? Some steps…
Social Review: Munches in London
After my last post on Munches: dos and don'ts, where I covered what a munch…
Ghost stories this Halloween
We are talking about ‘ghosting’. Urban Dictionary definite as: When a person cuts off all…
COVID-19, Only Fans, sex, and some Bella Thorne drama
At the early stages of lockdown here in the UK, I wrote about the sex…