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Type of Plays in BDSM

Last time I wrote about The ABC of BDSM and covered some very basic terminology, including: vanilla vs kink/fetish, BDSM, some basic roles in BDSM, what's a scene, safety protocols, and red flags. Before reading this post, make sure you read the first one. In The ABC of BDSM I also mentioned in passing the...

Podcast review: Safeword

Disclaimer: some mild NSFW middle of the page. Safeword: A Podcast with Mistress Eva and Dirk Hooper  Time for another podcast review!! In between Stuff to Blow Your Mind and The Guilty Feminist, I love to listen to a kinky podcast ... especially while being surrounded by unwittingly commuters on their way to work :)...

Social review: The Fox Den Skulk

There is a new sex-positive community in town. THE FOX DEN CLUB The Fox Den was founded in 2021, but don't let the year fool you. Behind this community there is a beautiful, charming, and fierce Irish woman who has strong roots in the kink and sex positive London community. Foxy (aka Sinead Mac Manus)...

Season 2 of BONDiNG is out!

I don't do presents at Christmas. Everyone who knows me, knows this. I am a Grinch, really. It's true, I swear. It doesn't stop at my no-presents-policy... yes, that's right, no presents... why I don't do presents? maybe I was scarred by terrible *insert random item of clothing here* in the past? or maybe because...

The ABC of BDSM

In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let's break these down a little, and provide some definitions. After all, a refresher never hurts! Let's start with the basics... WHAT IS VANILLA SEX? Vanilla sex is regular sex. Basically, all sexual behaviour without any kink, fetish, or BDSM...

Workshop review: Pegging 101 by KK

I recently attended the Pegging 101 online workshop run by Killing Kittens (see their Hedonism party review here), and hosted by Lola Jean. What can I say... It was informative, unashamed, and highly practical, simply awesome ♥ Have you heard of Killing Kittens? I have reviewed one of their parties here (last one before lockdown!)...

Wonder Women & BDSM

“Dr. Marston, Wonder Woman has drawn criticism for being full of deciptions of bondage, spanking, torture, homosexuality, and other sex perversions. Would you say that's a fair assessment of your work?” It's 1945, and a representative from the Child Study Association of America is interrogating Dr Marston. This is the opening of Professor Marston and...

Party review: Hedonism by KK

The Rules have Changed. A FEMALE-FIRST SOCIAL EXPERIENCE “Society wants you to fit into a mould. Find a man, get married, buy a house, have children... but what if you want something different in life? What if all you want is your freedom?”Anonymous guest at Hedonism Last night I have attended my first Hedonism party...

Happy National Fetish Day!

Fetish fetish fetish...  such a misunderstood word. Fetish is simply a small (or large) obsession with an object - say handcuffs, latex, ropes, or anything that meets your fantasies - or a specific body part - boobs and bums here reign above all, but of course also feet, hands, eyes, tummies and so on. The...

Eurovision goes BDSM…

hatari band iceland
BDSM landed at Eurovision 2019!   The Icelandic band Hatari joined the world’s longest-running televised song competition with their latest song: 'Hate will prevail'. Shocking both spectators and judges this year, the soft-spoken band brings to the contest punk rock music, controversial politics, and an abundance of bondage and latex.   If you would like...

Have you heard of BONDiNG?

bonding tv show
When I saw this, I could not believe my eyes! How amazing is this? Finally a TV Show that is not scared of openly talk about kinks, BDSM, and the fetish scene! This 3 hours gem (it's only 6 episodes, of about 15-18 minutes each) is available on Netflix and it's absolutely worth a watch....

Do you read comic books?

Wondering about Deviantart I came across this rather interesting comic book, and it literally captivate me... fancy a read? Here are chapters 1-5 available in PDF if you fancy flicking through it online, with individual images here. I would totally recommend this as a present too (maybe for your partner? ;) ), hard copies on...