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Kink community: Anita Cassidy, from Alethya

Interviewing a friend and published author, Anita Cassidy. Meet the woman behind the novel Appetite, and the website Alethya.

Kink community: Louise Payn, Fitness Domme

Explore Fitness Domination with Louise Payn, a Domme blending fitness, yoga, and kink to empower and transform lives in the BDSM community.

Kink community: Derek, Club Pedestal’s organiser

Interview with Club Pedestal’s organiser, Derek, on being a women-adoring submissive, the London’s FemDom community, and running the Club.

35+yrs of fetish shopping in London and the UK

I’ve reviewed some fun places in Amsterdam, and then I thought… why not review one of the longest, most established, fetish shop in London and the UK?

30 yrs of fetish shopping in Amsterdam

Last week in Amsterdam, I enjoyed Pride, partied, and visited Mister B, a famous fetish shop known for its leather, rubber, and BDSM gear. It was pretty cool!

Shopping: Pegging Joque strap-on

An harness for pegging that is fully adjustable, and it comes with a handy little bag so that it doesn’t get tangled up in your drawer. Genius.

Just for fun: Consent is like tea

I am a tea lover. I don’t even drink coffee. So when I saw this, I HAD to write about it. I hope you enjoy it 🙂 take care

Kink community: Meet Cosmic, LAM’s organiser

Interviewing the mind behind London Alternative Market. Cosmic, someone with a rather controversial reputation, and a friend of fellow blogger Alice.

Podcast review: Pink Kink

The podcasters are two cisgender women and BDSM practitioners, and one of them own a dungeons. So I had to listen to it as I dream of saving enough money (or win the lottery) and open my own dungeon one day.

Kink community: Meet Alice Hunter

Interviewing a swinger, blogger, and published author: Alice Hunter. Meet the woman behind Unicorns and How to Hunt Them, and learn about the swinger community.

Kink community: Meet Miss Pixie Mills

Interviewing an old school Dominatrix, Governess, Dungeon Monitor for Club Pedestal. She’s one of the founders of House of Command and rather busy bee!

Book review: The Mistress Manual by Lorelei

Review of a guide on Domestic Discipline, which is basically the enactment of drama/fantasy, within a power exchange dynamic, but with spanking.

Podcast review: Loving BDSM

A podcast by Kayla Lords (a female sub) and John Brownstone (a male Dom) sharing what a love of BDSM looks like in a loving D/s relationship.

Just for fun: How kinky are you test? (and archetypes)

Last year I wrote about how we are all getting kinkier, but ‘how kinky’ are we actually getting? Let’s put that to the test!

JTKC part 5: getting ready to go to a party

Found a kinky party you like… are you going solo? With a friend? What are you boundaries? Welcome to part 5 of joining the kink community

Kink community: Meet the Kink Shrink

Time for an interview with a therapist, a BDSM and sex educator that’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! I love my little hobby 🙂

JTKC part 4: pick a kinky party that works for you

You want to go to your first kinky party… how do you find the right one for you? Welcome to part 4 of joining the kink community 🙂

Kink community: a London-based Dominatrix

Thrilled to be able to interview a professional dominatrix, a BDSM educator, and a fetish club promoter, who’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! How exciting!

Book review: 101 Kinky Things by Kate Sloan

Need some inspiration? That’s the book for you! This book is simple, short, and direct while covering all the essential that you might need to start.

Happy BDSM Day!!

Did you know that July 24th is International BDSM Day? YAY! How are you celebrating? I am going to browse some cool IG accounts (and do some NSFW stuff).

JTKC part 3: meet kinksters online and take a good dick pic

Welcome to part 3 of joining the kink community! Bonus content: 5 tips to take a good dick pic because I’m tired of seeing penises in tiny cages

Just for fun: Kink Map!

Have you ever wondered how many kinks and fetishes are out there? Let’s travel using this map of kinks which I think it’s cool 🙂

Podcast review: Off the Cuffs

Off the Cuffs: a Kink & BDSM Podcast, for those in the lifestyle and those who are curious.

Party review: Thirst Friday

I don’t know about you, but I am a sucker for 90s rock. And even if you are not, at Thirst there is something for everyone!

Party review: The Fox Den Winter Wonderland

Following the Social I reviewed last time, THE FOX DEN organised its own very first party – Victoriana – and it was just beautiful ♥ ♥ ♥

JTKC part 2: online messaging

You decided that you’re ready, and want to join the kink community. What’s next? Recently I wrote about creating a profile on FL. Welcome to part two 🙂

JTKC part 1: creating an online profile

You decided you want to check out your local kink community… Now what? Some steps about joining FetLife.

Party review: Club Pedestal

Pedestal is a FemDom club, and it’s defined as the London’s playground for dominant women and those who worship them.

Munches: dos and don’ts

Right. Let’s start with a couple of basic things: What is a Munch? and What is FetLife? Here are some basic non-written rules to follow…

Party review: Fox&Badge Sin

Fox&Badge have been running sexy parties in London for over six years. They bring parties to life with their hedonistic blend of music, art, and vulnerability. With a sort of tribal twist.

Types of Play in BDSM

But what is play? Play means different things to different people. Today, I wanted to share my personal perspective on the different types of PLAY…

Podcast review: Safeword

Time for another podcast review!! Safeword: A Podcast with Mistress Eva and Dirk Hooper

Workshop review: Domming 101 by KK

Killing Kittens and Lola Jean present: Domming 101

Party review: The Fox Den Victoriana

Following the Social I reviewed last time, THE FOX DEN organised its own very first party – Victoriana – and it was just beautiful ♥ ♥ ♥

Podcast review: S&M Chronicles

I started going back to the office again, which means that I have more time to listen to kinky podcasts on my commute! YAY! The S&M Chronicles: A Kink Podcast

Social review: The Fox Den Skulk

There is a new sex-positive community in town. THE FOX DEN CLUB
The Fox Den was founded in 2021, but don’t let the year fool you.

Why I feel safer in a fetish club than a bar

It took me a long time to write this post. It’s a collection of personal experiences before I discovered (read: acknowledged I was into) kink.
I hope you enjoy the different point of view, I’ve never shared this much before.

Podcast review: Proud to be kinky

Proud to be kinky is a fun podcast covering the social and interpersonal side of kink, BDSM, fetish and alternative sexualities, all seasoned with some very cool banter.

TV review: Season 2 of BONDiNG is out!

Last Christmas, I got a present I didn’t know I wanted ? ♥ BONDiNG – Season 2!!! ♥ So happy about this cute show! 🙂

The ABC of BDSM

In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let’s break these down a little, and provide some definitions.

Workshop review: Dirty Talk by KK (and so much more!)

Happy New Year! YAY, 2020 is over! Now that’s out of the way…
Let’s start the new year with a kink!

What is Dirty Talk?

Book review: Pro-Domme by Aleta Cai

Aleta Cai is a NY-based healer and dominatrix who, through Sacred BDSM, helps her clients process trauma, and leads them to a path in pursuit of peace, purity and integration.

Guest blog by Piacere Nostro: BDSM

When I hear the word healing, probably BDSM is not one of the first things that springs to my mind, and I bet that the same is true for many of you.

Workshop review: Introduction to Shibari by KK

I joined Introduction to Shibari by Killing Kittens, hosted by Gregg Hiigara and Mili-fecent ?

Workshop review: Pegging 101 by KK

I recently attended the Pegging 101 online workshop run by Killing Kittens (see their Hedonism party review here), and hosted by Lola Jean. What can I say… It was informative, unashamed, and highly practical, simply awesome ♥

Movie review: Wonder Women & BDSM

This is the story of Professor Marston and the Wonder Women, an American biographical drama about a psychologist and the women who inspired him in his life.

Happy National Fetish Day!

Fetish is simply a small (or large) obsession with an object – say handcuffs, latex, ropes, or anything that meets your fantasies – or a specific body part – boobs and bums here reign above all, but of course also feet, hands, eyes, tummies and so on.