Last time I wrote about The ABC of BDSM and covered some very basic terminology, including: vanilla vs kink/fetish, BDSM, some basic roles in BDSM, what's a scene, safety protocols, and red flags. Before reading this post, make sure you read the first one. In The ABC of BDSM I also mentioned in passing the...
Not long ago, I wrote about the Pegging 101 online workshop, run by Killing Kittens (see their Hedonism party review here). Today I wanted to cover pegging in a little more details, so I present you: MORE ABOUT PEGGING! Let's start with the basics, and then expand a little: The what and the who: pegging is...
In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let's break these down a little, and provide some definitions. After all, a refresher never hurts! Let's start with the basics... WHAT IS VANILLA SEX? Vanilla sex is regular sex. Basically, all sexual behaviour without any kink, fetish, or BDSM...
Sometimes I can't believe it's December already... and sometimes I feel like this year has been the longest I ever had to live through. Yet here we are. At the early stages of lockdown here in the UK, I wrote about the sex toys industry and how COVID-19 affected it. Then not long ago, I...
I think I promised you an interview, didn't I? :) I thought I would look into a Brighton and Hove based charity, with 20+ years’ experience in providing support to women. Name: Oasis Project - registered charity number 1065503 Place and date of birth: Brighton, 1997 Job: Support women and their families who are affected...
In Great Britain (England, Wales and Scotland), the act of engaging in sex as part of an exchange of sexual services for money is legal.* *Yes, you read that correctly. Prostitution is LEGAL in most of the UK. In Northern Ireland paying for sex became illegal in 2015. Prostitution is the oldest profession in the...
Yes, it was only time before I wrote about sex toys. With a global pandemic in progress, and many of us at home full-time, it's no surprise sex toys made the news on multiple occasions. The Guardian wrote about Sexual Exploration (Self-love in isolation: 'I hope people are using this time to explore their sexuality'),...
It's pandemic-blog-writing today. I think Covid-19 is now the biggest epidemic since HIV/AIDS, which killed over 32 millions people since the 1920s (and counting..). On that happy note, and with a government lockdown in place, I can confidently say that my party-review posts will be on hold indefinitely. This means, that my upcoming blog posts...
“Dr. Marston, Wonder Woman has drawn criticism for being full of deciptions of bondage, spanking, torture, homosexuality, and other sex perversions. Would you say that's a fair assessment of your work?” It's 1945, and a representative from the Child Study Association of America is interrogating Dr Marston. This is the opening of Professor Marston and...
