Because sometime, after receiving a compliment from a guy, I am left more confused than before. A story about negging and simple conversations.
Compliment or insult? You be the judge.

Because sometime, after receiving a compliment from a guy, I am left more confused than before. A story about negging and simple conversations.
Found a kinky party you like… are you going solo? With a friend? What are you boundaries? Welcome to part 5 of joining the kink community
Time for an interview with a therapist, a BDSM and sex educator that’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! I love my little hobby 🙂
We were always kinky. We just needed an excuse to do kinky things to cure *insert random reason*. Read to know more…
You want to go to your first kinky party… how do you find the right one for you? Welcome to part 4 of joining the kink community 🙂
Time for an interview with a Dominatrix that’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! How exciting!
Did you know that July 24th is International BDSM Day? YAY! How are you celebrating? I am going to browse some cool IG accounts (and do some NSFW stuff).
Welcome to part 3 of joining the kink community! Bonus content: 5 tips to take a good dick pic because I’m tired of seeing penises in tiny cages
Have you ever wondered how many kinks and fetishes are out there?
Here are some messages I have received on FL that are simply dreadful.
You decided that you’re ready, and want to join the kink community. What’s next? Recently I wrote about creating a profile on FL. Welcome to part two 🙂
You decided you want to check out your local kink community… Now what? Some steps about joining FetLife.
The other day I came across a very interesting article by Vice about how demand for UK fetish clubs is now higher than ever, and thought… why is that?
Right. Let’s start with a couple of basic things: What is a Munch? and What is FetLife? Here are some basic non-written rules to follow…
But what is play? Play means different things to different people. Today, I wanted to share my personal perspective on the different types of PLAY…
Today I wanted to cover pegging in a little more details, with all the steps, so I present you: MORE ABOUT PEGGING! Enjoy
Here are three steps to look after latex: WEAR IT, WASH IT, and STORE IT.
In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let’s break these down a little, and provide some definitions.
At the early stages of lockdown here in the UK, I wrote about the sex toys industry and how COVID-19 affected it. Then not long ago, I wrote about the sex work industry and how COVID-19 changed it.
I think I promised you an interview, didn’t I? ?
I thought I would look into a Brighton and Hove based charity, with 20+ years’ experience in providing support to women.
In Great Britain (England, Wales and Scotland), the act of engaging in sex as part of an exchange of sexual services for money is legal.*
When I hear the word healing, probably BDSM is not one of the first things that springs to my mind, and I bet that the same is true for many of you.
With a global pandemic in progress, and many of us at home full-time, it’s no surprise sex toys made the news on multiple occasions.
Today I thought of writing about Burlesque!
Burlesque, which derives from the Italian ‘burlesco’ meaning joke, ridicule or mockery, is a performance art intended to make you laugh, by turning pretty much anything into a parody.
It’s 1945, and a representative from the Child Study Association of America is interrogating Dr Marston.
This is the opening of Professor Marston and the Wonder Women, an American biographical drama about psychologist William Moulton Marston and the women who inspired him in his life.