Are trigger words political?
kinkytiger Trigger words started off as a trauma tool, but ended up n culture wars. What…
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Not an April’s Fools, instead just good news!
Catcalling is now a crime in the UK. A step towards safety, accountability, and recognising…
Fantasy or reality. Which one do you want?
Kinky dating and how submissive men care more about the fantasy than you, and I…
This is my out of office while on holiday!
I am currently bingeing on panettone (and kinky tv shows) while on holiday. Back next…
Organise the event you want to see
Not every kink event fits your fantasy. So why not create one that does? Make…
Flogging… erm, I mean Flagging. As in Flags.
Dating is messy, but knowing dating flags can help spot the good, the bad, and…
Unicorns: mythical or misunderstood?
Unicorns in polyamory: let's explore the dynamics, challenges, and best practices of unicorn relationships/triads and…
Just for fun: What kind of kinky are you?
Shall we take a look at 'what kind of kinky' we are? We could put…
Gender identities and “labels”
Gender isn’t binary. It’s a personal truth to respect. Like with titles, please honour pronouns…
Power, play, and history of Female Domination
Why being under Her spell might be exactly where you belong: Exploring the power, play,…
How to look after your own latex got upgraded!
Here are three steps to look after latex: WEAR IT, WASH IT, and STORE IT.…
JTKC part 8: Be an active member
Become an ambassador and share your experiences to strengthen the kink community, foster belonging, and…
Benching. Put on a shelf, not a Pedestal
Benching: Did they put you on a shelf or on a pedestal? Mixed signals, vague…
Merry Kinkmas and a Happy 2025
Merry Kinkmas! 2024 was a mix of heartache, joy, and kinky adventures. Thank you, community,…
Breadcrumbing. Not just for fairytales
Feeling lost in the dating forest? Don't settle for breadcrumbs. Seek connections founded on mutual…
The Sex Museum in Amsterdam
Explored Amsterdam's Red Light District and visited the Museum of Prostitution - insightful, interactive, and…
The Red Light District in Amsterdam
Explored Amsterdam's Red Light District and visited the Museum of Prostitution - insightful, interactive, and…
What do you know about tantra?
My answer would be 'very little'! So I decided to ask an expert, someone who…
Have you heard of the Wheel of Consent?
Decided to write about the Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin. Take, Allow, Serve, Accept…
Have you heard of the F words?
Most people have heard about the fight or flight response. But is that all we…
Five years ago I did a thing
5 years ago I started blogging… and I never stopped.
Just for fun: How kinky are you test? (and archetypes)
Last year I wrote about how we are all getting kinkier, but 'how kinky' are…
Just for fun: miracle cures in the 1800s
We were always kinky. We just needed an excuse to do kinky things to cure…
Happy BDSM Day!!
Did you know that July 24th is International BDSM Day? YAY! How are you celebrating?…
Are we getting kinkier?
The other day I came across a very interesting article by Vice about how demand…
Ghost stories this Halloween
We are talking about ‘ghosting’. Urban Dictionary definite as: When a person cuts off all…
Types of Play in BDSM
But what is play? Play means different things to different people. Today, I wanted to…
More about pegging!
Today I wanted to cover pegging in a little more details, with all the steps,…
Latex news: How to look after your latex
Here are three steps on how to look after latex: WEAR IT, WASH IT, and…
The ABC of BDSM
In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought,…
COVID-19, Only Fans, sex, and some Bella Thorne drama
At the early stages of lockdown here in the UK, I wrote about the sex…
How much do you know about the UK sex industry? – PART 2
I think I promised you an interview, didn’t I? ? I thought I would look…
How much do you know about the UK sex industry? – PART 1
In Great Britain (England, Wales and Scotland), the act of engaging in sex as part…
Guest blog by Piacere Nostro: BDSM
piacere_nostro When I hear the word healing, probably BDSM is not one of the first things…
Men dominated the sex toys industry.. I feel change cumming
With a global pandemic in progress, and many of us at home full-time, it’s no…
Burlesque: Some History
Today I thought of writing about Burlesque! Burlesque, which derives from the Italian ‘burlesco’ meaning…
Movie review: Wonder Women & BDSM
This is the story of Professor Marston and the Wonder Women, an American biographical drama…