Power, play, and history of Female Domination

Why being under Her spell might be exactly where you belong: Exploring the power, play, and history of Female Domination.

How to look after your own latex got upgraded!

Here are three steps to look after latex: WEAR IT, WASH IT, and STORE IT. Including some extra tips that might come in handy.

JTKC part 8: Be an active member

Become an ambassador and share your experiences to strengthen the kink community, foster belonging, and educate others. Your journey can make a difference

Benching. Put on a shelf, not a Pedestal

Benching: Did they put you on a shelf or on a pedestal? Mixed signals, vague plans, and no progress… welcome to another situationship limbo.

Merry Kinkmas and a Happy 2025

Merry Kinkmas! 2024 was a mix of heartache, joy, and kinky adventures. Thank you, community, for your love, laughs, and solidarity. Here’s to 2025! 🖤

Breadcrumbing. Not just for fairy tales.

Feeling lost in the dating forest? Don’t settle for breadcrumbs. Seek connections founded on mutual respect and genuine interest.

The Sex Museum in Amsterdam

Explored Amsterdam’s Red Light District and visited the Museum of Prostitution – insightful, interactive, and set in a historic brothel. A must-see!

The Red Light District in Amsterdam

Explored Amsterdam’s Red Light District and visited the Museum of Prostitution – insightful, interactive, and set in a historic brothel. A must-see!

What do you know about tantra?

My answer would be ‘very little’! So I decided to ask an expert, someone who is a professional in his field, for his insights and experiences.

Have you heard of the Wheel of Consent?

Decided to write about the Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin. Take, Allow, Serve, Accept – each slice guides us to pleasure.

Have you heard of the F words?

Most people have heard about the fight or flight response. But is that all we are capable of? Actually, we are capable of at least two more: freeze and fawn.

Five years ago I did a thing

5 years ago I started blogging… and I never stopped.

Just for fun: miracle cures in the 1800s

We were always kinky. We just needed an excuse to do kinky things to cure *insert random reason*. Read to know more…

Happy BDSM Day!!

Did you know that July 24th is International BDSM Day? YAY! How are you celebrating? I am going to browse some cool IG accounts (and do some NSFW stuff).

Are we getting kinkier?

The other day I came across a very interesting article by Vice about how demand for UK fetish clubs is now higher than ever, and thought… why is that?

Ghost stories this Halloween

We are talking about ‘ghosting’. Urban Dictionary definite as: When a person cuts off all communication with their friends or the person they’re dating, with zero warning or notice before hand. You’ll mostly see them avoiding friend’s phone calls, social media, and avoiding them in public.

Types of Play in BDSM

But what is play? Play means different things to different people. Today, I wanted to share my personal perspective on the different types of PLAY…

More about pegging!

Today I wanted to cover pegging in a little more details, with all the steps, so I present you: MORE ABOUT PEGGING! Enjoy

Latex news: How to look after your own latex

Here are three steps to look after latex: WEAR IT, WASH IT, and STORE IT. Including some extra tips that might come in handy.

The ABC of BDSM

In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let’s break these down a little, and provide some definitions.

COVID-19, Only Fans, sex, and some Bella Thorne drama

At the early stages of lockdown here in the UK, I wrote about the sex toys industry and how COVID-19 affected it. Then not long ago, I wrote about the sex work industry and how COVID-19 changed it.

How much do you know about the UK sex industry? – PART 2

I think I promised you an interview, didn’t I? ?

I thought I would look into a Brighton and Hove based charity, with 20+ years’ experience in providing support to women.

How much do you know about the UK sex industry? – PART 1

In Great Britain (England, Wales and Scotland), the act of engaging in sex as part of an exchange of sexual services for money is legal.*

Guest blog by Piacere Nostro: BDSM

When I hear the word healing, probably BDSM is not one of the first things that springs to my mind, and I bet that the same is true for many of you.

Men dominated the sex toys industry.. I feel change cumming

With a global pandemic in progress, and many of us at home full-time, it’s no surprise sex toys made the news on multiple occasions.

Burlesque: Some History

Today I thought of writing about Burlesque!

Burlesque, which derives from the Italian ‘burlesco’ meaning joke, ridicule or mockery, is a performance art intended to make you laugh, by turning pretty much anything into a parody.

Movie review: Wonder Women & BDSM

This is the story of Professor Marston and the Wonder Women, an American biographical drama about a psychologist and the women who inspired him in his life.