Because sometime, after receiving a compliment from a guy, I am left more confused than before. A story about negging and simple conversations.
Compliment or insult? You be the judge.
Archives for edu
JTKC part 5: Getting ready to go to a party
Found a kinky party you like… are you going solo? With a friend? What are you boundaries? Welcome to part 5 of joining the kink community
Kink community: Meet the Kink Shrink
Time for an interview with a therapist, a BDSM and sex educator that’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! I love my little hobby 🙂
Just for fun: miracle cures in the 1800s
We were always kinky. We just needed an excuse to do kinky things to cure *insert random reason*. Read to know more…
JTKC part 4: pick a kinky party that works for you
You want to go to your first kinky party… how do you find the right one for you? Welcome to part 4 of joining the kink community 🙂
Kink community: a London-based Dominatrix
Time for an interview with a Dominatrix that’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! How exciting!
Happy BDSM Day!!
Did you know that July 24th is International BDSM Day? YAY! How are you celebrating? I am going to browse some cool IG accounts (and do some NSFW stuff).
JTKC part 3: meet kinksters online and take a good dick pic
Welcome to part 3 of joining the kink community! Bonus content: 5 tips to take a good dick pic because I’m tired of seeing penises in tiny cages
Just for fun: Kink Map!
Have you ever wondered how many kinks and fetishes are out there?
Just for fun: collection of dreadful messages from FetLife
Here are some messages I have received on FL that are simply dreadful.
JTKC part 2: online messaging
You decided that you’re ready, and want to join the kink community. What’s next? Recently I wrote about creating a profile on FL. Welcome to part two 🙂
JTKC part 1: creating an online profile
You decided you want to check out your local kink community… Now what? Some steps about joining FetLife.
Are we getting kinkier?
The other day I came across a very interesting article by Vice about how demand for UK fetish clubs is now higher than ever, and thought… why is that?
Munches: dos and don’ts
Right. Let’s start with a couple of basic things: What is a Munch? and What is FetLife? Here are some basic non-written rules to follow…
Type of Plays in BDSM
But what is play? Play means different things to different people. Today, I wanted to share my personal perspective on the different types of PLAY…
More about pegging!
Today I wanted to cover pegging in a little more details, with all the steps, so I present you: MORE ABOUT PEGGING! Enjoy
Latex news: How to look after your own latex
Here are three steps to look after latex: WEAR IT, WASH IT, and STORE IT.
The ABC of BDSM
In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let’s break these down a little, and provide some definitions.
COVID-19, Only Fans, sex, and some Bella Thorne drama
At the early stages of lockdown here in the UK, I wrote about the sex toys industry and how COVID-19 affected it. Then not long ago, I wrote about the sex work industry and how COVID-19 changed it.
How much do you know about the UK sex industry? – PART 2
I think I promised you an interview, didn’t I? ?
I thought I would look into a Brighton and Hove based charity, with 20+ years’ experience in providing support to women.
How much do you know about the UK sex industry? – PART 1
In Great Britain (England, Wales and Scotland), the act of engaging in sex as part of an exchange of sexual services for money is legal.*
Guest blog by Piacere Nostro: BDSM
When I hear the word healing, probably BDSM is not one of the first things that springs to my mind, and I bet that the same is true for many of you.
Men dominated the sex toys industry.. I feel change cumming
With a global pandemic in progress, and many of us at home full-time, it’s no surprise sex toys made the news on multiple occasions.
Burlesque: Some History
Today I thought of writing about Burlesque!
Burlesque, which derives from the Italian ‘burlesco’ meaning joke, ridicule or mockery, is a performance art intended to make you laugh, by turning pretty much anything into a parody.
Wonder Women & BDSM
It’s 1945, and a representative from the Child Study Association of America is interrogating Dr Marston.
This is the opening of Professor Marston and the Wonder Women, an American biographical drama about psychologist William Moulton Marston and the women who inspired him in his life.