Explore Fitness Domination with Louise Payn, a Domme blending fitness, yoga, and kink to empower and transform lives in the BDSM community.
Kink community: Louise Payn, Fitness Domme

Explore Fitness Domination with Louise Payn, a Domme blending fitness, yoga, and kink to empower and transform lives in the BDSM community.
Interview with Club Pedestal’s organiser, Derek, on being a women-adoring submissive, the London’s FemDom community, and running the Club.
I am a tea lover. I don’t even drink coffee. So when I saw this, I HAD to write about it. I hope you enjoy it 🙂 take care
Decided to write about the Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin. Take, Allow, Serve, Accept – each slice guides us to pleasure.
Interviewing the mind behind London Alternative Market. Cosmic, someone with a rather controversial reputation, and a friend of fellow blogger Alice.
Interviewing a swinger, blogger, and published author: Alice Hunter. Meet the woman behind Unicorns and How to Hunt Them, and learn about the swinger community.
Interviewing an old school Dominatrix, Governess, Dungeon Monitor for Club Pedestal. She’s one of the founders of House of Command and rather busy bee!
Review of a guide on Domestic Discipline, which is basically the enactment of drama/fantasy, within a power exchange dynamic, but with spanking.
Found a kinky party you like… are you going solo? With a friend? What are you boundaries? Welcome to part 5 of joining the kink community
Time for an interview with a therapist, a BDSM and sex educator that’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! I love my little hobby 🙂
You want to go to your first kinky party… how do you find the right one for you? Welcome to part 4 of joining the kink community 🙂
Thrilled to be able to interview a professional dominatrix, a BDSM educator, and a fetish club promoter, who’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! How exciting!
Need some inspiration? That’s the book for you! This book is simple, short, and direct while covering all the essential that you might need to start.
Glow West is a series of interviews with academics, sex educators, sex workers, activists, and more, discussing sex, sexuality, and the body.
Welcome to part 3 of joining the kink community! Bonus content: 5 tips to take a good dick pic because I’m tired of seeing penises in tiny cages
Have you ever wondered how many kinks and fetishes are out there? Let’s travel using this map of kinks which I think it’s cool 🙂
I would kill for a sexy man in sexy undies (I would kill a spider, and I am stupidly scared of spiders).
Off the Cuffs: a Kink & BDSM Podcast, for those in the lifestyle and those who are curious.
I don’t know about you, but I am a sucker for 90s rock. And even if you are not, at Thirst there is something for everyone!
Nude Noir events are said to be playful and seductive, in refined and decadent venues around the world. Let’s take a closer look.
Following the Social I reviewed last time, THE FOX DEN organised its own very first party – Victoriana – and it was just beautiful ♥ ♥ ♥
You decided that you’re ready, and want to join the kink community. What’s next? Recently I wrote about creating a profile on FL. Welcome to part two 🙂
You decided you want to check out your local kink community… Now what? Some steps about joining FetLife.
After my last post on Munches: dos and don’ts, where I covered what a munch is and where to find them, I wanted to review some of the London munches.
The other day I came across a very interesting article by Vice about how demand for UK fetish clubs is now higher than ever, and thought… why is that?
Pedestal is a FemDom club, and it’s defined as the London’s playground for dominant women and those who worship them.
This year I managed to get tickets to one of my most-loved event organisers: The Mansion! Theme: Black. Have you ever been at a Mansion party?
Right. Let’s start with a couple of basic things: What is a Munch? and What is FetLife? Here are some basic non-written rules to follow…
But what is play? Play means different things to different people. Today, I wanted to share my personal perspective on the different types of PLAY…
Following the Social I reviewed last time, THE FOX DEN organised its own very first party – Victoriana – and it was just beautiful ♥ ♥ ♥
There is a new sex-positive community in town. THE FOX DEN CLUB
The Fox Den was founded in 2021, but don’t let the year fool you.
It took me a long time to write this post. It’s a collection of personal experiences before I discovered (read: acknowledged I was into) kink.
I hope you enjoy the different point of view, I’ve never shared this much before.
Proud to be kinky is a fun podcast covering the social and interpersonal side of kink, BDSM, fetish and alternative sexualities, all seasoned with some very cool banter.
In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let’s break these down a little, and provide some definitions.
Happy New Year! YAY, 2020 is over! Now that’s out of the way…
Let’s start the new year with a kink!
What is Dirty Talk?
Like everyone else (right?), I love Lady Gaga. So I thought I would share some of my fav outfits she wore recently ? starting with…
I recently attended the Pegging 101 online workshop run by Killing Kittens (see their Hedonism party review here), and hosted by Lola Jean. What can I say… It was informative, unashamed, and highly practical, simply awesome ♥
Emma Watson is an English actress, model and activist. We all know here as Hermione Granger from the Harry Potter film series, but she also has played leading roles in My Week with Marilyn, The Perks of Being a Wallflower (available on Netflix), The Circle (Netflix Original), the fantastic Beauty and the Beast (major Disney fan here), and the coming-of-age film Little Women.
As we are all doing the social distancing during lockdown, I thought I would share some interesting and amusing news…
Fetish is simply a small (or large) obsession with an object – say handcuffs, latex, ropes, or anything that meets your fantasies – or a specific body part – boobs and bums here reign above all, but of course also feet, hands, eyes, tummies and so on.