Interviewing a swinger, blogger, and published author: Alice Hunter. Meet the woman behind Unicorns and How to Hunt Them, and learn about the swinger community.
Kink community: Meet Alice Hunter
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Kink community: Meet Miss Pixie Mills
Interviewing an old school Dominatrix, Governess, Dungeon Monitor for Club Pedestal. She’s one of the founders of House of Command and rather busy bee!
Book review: The Mistress Manual by Lorelei
Review of a guide on Domestic Discipline, which is basically the enactment of drama/fantasy, within a power exchange dynamic, but with spanking.
Just for fun: How kinky are you test?
Last year I wrote about how we are all getting kinkier, but ‘how kinky’ are we actually getting? Let’s put that to the test!
JTKC part 5: getting ready to go to a party
Found a kinky party you like… are you going solo? With a friend? What are you boundaries? Welcome to part 5 of joining the kink community
Kink community: Meet the Kink Shrink
Time for an interview with a therapist, a BDSM and sex educator that’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! I love my little hobby 🙂
Just for fun: miracle cures in the 1800s
We were always kinky. We just needed an excuse to do kinky things to cure *insert random reason*. Read to know more…
JTKC part 4: pick a kinky party that works for you
You want to go to your first kinky party… how do you find the right one for you? Welcome to part 4 of joining the kink community 🙂
Kink community: a London-based Dominatrix
Thrilled to be able to interview a professional dominatrix, a BDSM educator, and a fetish club promoter, who’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! How exciting!
Book review: 101 Kinky Things by Kate Sloan
Need some inspiration? That’s the book for you! This book is simple, short, and direct while covering all the essential that you might need to start.
Podcast review: Glow West
Glow West is a series of interviews with academics, sex educators, sex workers, activists, and more, discussing sex, sexuality, and the body.
JTKC part 3: meet kinksters online and take a good dick pic
Welcome to part 3 of joining the kink community! Bonus content: 5 tips to take a good dick pic because I’m tired of seeing penises in tiny cages
Just for fun: Kink Map!
Have you ever wondered how many kinks and fetishes are out there?
Just for fun: skimpy undies for men? yes please!
I would kill for a sexy man in sexy undies (I would kill a spider, and I am stupidly scared of spiders).
Podcast review: Off the Cuffs
Off the Cuffs: a Kink & BDSM Podcast, for those in the lifestyle and those who are curious.
Party review: Thirst Friday
I don’t know about you, but I am a sucker for 90s rock. And even if you are not, at Thirst there is something for everyone!
Party review: Valentine’s Noir by Nude Noir
Nude Noir events are said to be playful and seductive, in refined and decadent venues around the world. Let’s take a closer look.
Party review: The Fox Den Winter Wonderland
Following the Social I reviewed last time, THE FOX DEN organised its own very first party – Victoriana – and it was just beautiful ♥ ♥ ♥
JTKC part 2: online messaging
You decided that you’re ready, and want to join the kink community. What’s next? Recently I wrote about creating a profile on FL. Welcome to part two 🙂
JTKC part 1: creating an online profile
You decided you want to check out your local kink community… Now what? Some steps about joining FetLife.
Social Review: Munches in London
After my last post on Munches: dos and don’ts, where I covered what a munch is and where to find them, I wanted to review some of the London munches.
Are we getting kinkier?
The other day I came across a very interesting article by Vice about how demand for UK fetish clubs is now higher than ever, and thought… why is that?
Party review: Club Pedestal
Pedestal is a FemDom club, and it’s defined as the London’s playground for dominant women and those who worship them.
Party review: Black at The Mansion
This year I managed to get tickets to one of my most-loved event organisers: The Mansion! Theme: Black. Have you ever been at a Mansion party?
Munches: dos and don’ts
Right. Let’s start with a couple of basic things: What is a Munch? and What is FetLife? Here are some basic non-written rules to follow…
Type of Plays in BDSM
But what is play? Play means different things to different people. Today, I wanted to share my personal perspective on the different types of PLAY…
Party review: The Fox Den Victoriana
Following the Social I reviewed last time, THE FOX DEN organised its own very first party – Victoriana – and it was just beautiful ♥ ♥ ♥
Social review: The Fox Den Skulk
There is a new sex-positive community in town. THE FOX DEN CLUB
The Fox Den was founded in 2021, but don’t let the year fool you.
Why I feel safer in a fetish club than a bar
It took me a long time to write this post. It’s a collection of personal experiences before I discovered (read: acknowledged I was into) kink.
I hope you enjoy the different point of view, I’ve never shared this much before.
Podcast review: Proud to be kinky
Proud to be kinky is a fun podcast covering the social and interpersonal side of kink, BDSM, fetish and alternative sexualities, all seasoned with some very cool banter.
The ABC of BDSM
In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let’s break these down a little, and provide some definitions.
Workshop review: Dirty Talk by KK (and so much more!)
Happy New Year! YAY, 2020 is over! Now that’s out of the way…
Let’s start the new year with a kink!
What is Dirty Talk?
Latex news: Latex for Gaga – UPDATED
Like everyone else (right?), I love Lady Gaga. So I thought I would share some of my fav outfits she wore recently ? starting with…
Would you like to get to know me?
UK Leather & Fetish Archive is an IG channel documenting and providing open access to the history of fetish, kink & BDSM in the UK.
Workshop review: Pegging 101 by KK
I recently attended the Pegging 101 online workshop run by Killing Kittens (see their Hedonism party review here), and hosted by Lola Jean. What can I say… It was informative, unashamed, and highly practical, simply awesome ♥
Emma Watson talks about kink culture
Emma Watson is an English actress, model and activist. We all know here as Hermione Granger from the Harry Potter film series, but she also has played leading roles in My Week with Marilyn, The Perks of Being a Wallflower (available on Netflix), The Circle (Netflix Original), the fantastic Beauty and the Beast (major Disney fan here), and the coming-of-age film Little Women.
Latex news: Lockdown edition
As we are all doing the social distancing during lockdown, I thought I would share some interesting and amusing news…
Burlesque: Some History
Today I thought of writing about Burlesque!
Burlesque, which derives from the Italian ‘burlesco’ meaning joke, ridicule or mockery, is a performance art intended to make you laugh, by turning pretty much anything into a parody.
Movie review: Wonder Women & BDSM
This is the story of Professor Marston and the Wonder Women, an American biographical drama about a psychologist and the women who inspired him in his life.
Happy National Fetish Day!
Fetish is simply a small (or large) obsession with an object – say handcuffs, latex, ropes, or anything that meets your fantasies – or a specific body part – boobs and bums here reign above all, but of course also feet, hands, eyes, tummies and so on.