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I’m occasionally on social, but mostly FL these days as IG shut down my account after 5 years… I am not resentful, you’re crying. *sobs a little*

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Not an April’s Fools, instead just good news!

Catcalling is now a crime in the UK. A step towards safety, accountability, and recognising the real impact of public harassment on women and girls. YAY!

Fantasy or reality. Which one do you want?

When submissive men care more about the fantasy than about you, and I need to have a little rant about it, but I try to be constructive 🙂

Organise the event you want to see

Not every kink event fits your fantasy. So why not create one that does? Make it happen. Build the space you want to see.

Power, play, and history of Female Domination

Why being under Her spell might be exactly where you belong: Exploring the power, play, and history of Female Domination.

Benching. Put on a shelf, not a Pedestal

Benching: Did they put you on a shelf or on a pedestal? Mixed signals, vague plans, and no progress… welcome to another situationship limbo.

Merry Kinkmas and a Happy 2025

Merry Kinkmas! 2024 was a mix of heartache, joy, and kinky adventures. Thank you, community, for your love, laughs, and solidarity. Here’s to 2025! 🖤

Breadcrumbing. Not just for fairytales

Feeling lost in the dating forest? Don’t settle for breadcrumbs. Seek connections founded on mutual respect and genuine interest.

Just for fun: Consent is like tea

I am a tea lover. I don’t even drink coffee. So when I saw this, I HAD to write about it. I hope you enjoy it 🙂 take care

What do you know about tantra?

My answer would be ‘very little’! So I decided to ask an expert, someone who is a professional in his field, for his insights and experiences.

Have you heard of the Wheel of Consent?

Decided to write about the Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin. Take, Allow, Serve, Accept – each slice guides us to pleasure.