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The ABC of BDSM

In my description, I say I blog about kink, fetish, and BDSM. So, I thought, let's break these down a little, and provide some definitions. After all, a refresher never hurts! Let's start with the basics... WHAT IS VANILLA SEX? Vanilla sex is regular sex. Basically, all sexual behaviour without any kink, fetish, or BDSM...

More chilling adventures!

2021 started with a bang didn't it? I feel like so much has happened since I wrote about Dirty Talk two weeks ago... Starting from the Storming of the United States Capitol last week, Donal Trump's temporary ban from Facebook and Instagram, and suspension from Twitter (about fucking time), Elon Musk overtaking Jeff Bezos as...

Pride and Eurovision

This 2020 saw the cancellation of both, Eurovision and London Pride (damn you COVID). And this December, I felt a little nostalgic, and wanted to spend some time reminiscing on both. I wrote about Eurovision before, back in 2019 an Icelandic band, Hatari, made headlines with their song ‘Hate will prevail’. Full blog post here....

Happy Birthday RuPaul

Just wanted to say congrats to RuPaul, who after being the first ever Drag Queen to make the cover of Vanity Fair, now made the cover of Cosmopolitan too! Oh and Happy 60th Birthday :)  ALBERT SANCHEZ AND PEDRO ZALBA | ALICE COWLING View this post on Instagram A post shared by Cosmopolitan UK (@cosmopolitanuk)...

Podcast review: Ginsult

Whether you are going for a walk, running errands, or doing something I would never do (like exercise for instance), it's always good to have a podcast to listen to. Especially if the podcast is run by two of London's biggest Burlesque performers, who (like the rest of us) are stuck at home more often than...

Latex news: Inflatable trousers

I think it's been a while since I last posted about latex... Earlier this year Harikrishnan was walking his dog, and a strange thought came into his mind: how does he see me? That's what inspired 26-year-old London student for his graduate show at London College of Fashion. Blown up trousers, in latex. “I was...

Workshop review: Pegging 101 by KK

I recently attended the Pegging 101 online workshop run by Killing Kittens (see their Hedonism party review here), and hosted by Lola Jean. What can I say... It was informative, unashamed, and highly practical, simply awesome ♥ Have you heard of Killing Kittens? I have reviewed one of their parties here (last one before lockdown!)...

Emma Watson talks about kink culture

This woman keeps rocking my world. “I’ve also kind of become slightly fascinated by kink culture because they are the best communicators ever. They know all about consent. They smash that stuff because they really have to get it — but we could all use those models; they’re actually really helpful models.”Emma Watson © Alasdair...

Latex news: Lockdown edition

As we are all doing the social distancing during lockdown, I thought I would share some interesting and amusing news... A girl from Montreal decided to do her shopping extra safely: Vicky Devika, the artist, model, and DJ behind the Elusive Rubber Creature tells MTL Blog that she "knew the video would be well received...

Burlesque: Some History

It's pandemic-blog-writing today. I think Covid-19 is now the biggest epidemic since HIV/AIDS, which killed over 32 millions people since the 1920s (and counting..).  On that happy note, and with a government lockdown in place, I can confidently say that my party-review posts will be on hold indefinitely. This means, that my upcoming blog posts...

Wonder Women & BDSM

“Dr. Marston, Wonder Woman has drawn criticism for being full of deciptions of bondage, spanking, torture, homosexuality, and other sex perversions. Would you say that's a fair assessment of your work?” It's 1945, and a representative from the Child Study Association of America is interrogating Dr Marston. This is the opening of Professor Marston and...

Party review: Hedonism by KK

The Rules have Changed. A FEMALE-FIRST SOCIAL EXPERIENCE “Society wants you to fit into a mould. Find a man, get married, buy a house, have children... but what if you want something different in life? What if all you want is your freedom?”Anonymous guest at Hedonism Last night I have attended my first Hedonism party...

Happy National Fetish Day!

Fetish fetish fetish...  such a misunderstood word. Fetish is simply a small (or large) obsession with an object - say handcuffs, latex, ropes, or anything that meets your fantasies - or a specific body part - boobs and bums here reign above all, but of course also feet, hands, eyes, tummies and so on. The...

When Gucci does invites..

...and instead of an envelope you get this... View this post on Instagram The invitation for the #GucciFW19 fashion show by @alessandro_michele. Modelled like papier-mâché, a mask of Hermaphroditus, who in Greek mythology was said to be a two-sex child with a name compounded from his parents’ names Aphrodite and Hermes, and a symbol of...

Party review: Wilderness Festival 2019

What a festival that was... still buzzing!! Recommend a go with your mates; at least one in your life :) Just added some pictures of the 'activities' and also, really proud of this, we broke the record for the longest spooning session!! How awesome is that? www.WildernessFestival.com Related postsParty review: Hedonism by KK1 March 2020Party...

Scarlett Johansson wears Atsuko Kudo

Just watching Ghost in the Shell online and realised that Scarlett Johasson is wearing an Atsuko Kudo outfit, 15 mins in to the movie.. what else did you notice?   Available on Netflix. #scarlettjohansson wearing #atsukokudolatex soft cup bra and high waist briefs in semitransparent cloud grey for #ghostintheshell movie 📽💕💕 pic.twitter.com/K7SGHhaoow— Atsuko Kudo Latex...

Eurovision goes BDSM…

hatari band iceland
BDSM landed at Eurovision 2019!   The Icelandic band Hatari joined the world’s longest-running televised song competition with their latest song: 'Hate will prevail'. Shocking both spectators and judges this year, the soft-spoken band brings to the contest punk rock music, controversial politics, and an abundance of bondage and latex.   If you would like...

Have you heard of BONDiNG?

bonding tv show
When I saw this, I could not believe my eyes! How amazing is this? Finally a TV Show that is not scared of openly talk about kinks, BDSM, and the fetish scene! This 3 hours gem (it's only 6 episodes, of about 15-18 minutes each) is available on Netflix and it's absolutely worth a watch....

Do you read comic books?

Wondering about Deviantart I came across this rather interesting comic book, and it literally captivate me... fancy a read? Here are chapters 1-5 available in PDF if you fancy flicking through it online, with individual images here. I would totally recommend this as a present too (maybe for your partner? ;) ), hard copies on...

Queen meet Queen

Because if there was someone who could have gotten away with wearing latex when meeting Queen Elizabeth, that's the other Queen (of Pop!). Full Article by Atsuko Kudo. Related postsThe love of a 17 yo me, 17 years ago…9 November 2019Fashion: What did I learn this 2019?29 December 2019