Just for fun: Consent and FRIES

The blog post you didn't know you needed today

The other day, I came across this image, that had two of my favourite things on things on it: consent AND fries!!!

So I thought I would share it and here it is. Consent is like Fries.

Understanding consent is as easy as FRIES.

Consent is:

Freely given. Doing something sexual with someone is a decision that should be made without pressure, force, manipulation, or while drunk or high.
Reversible. Anyone can change their mind about what they want to do, at any time. Even if you’ve done it before or are in the middle of having sex.
Informed. Be honest. For example, if someone says they’ll use a condom and then they don’t, that’s not consent.
Enthusiastic. If someone isn’t excited, or really into it, that’s not consent.
Specific. Saying yes to one thing (like going to the bedroom to make out) doesn’t mean they’ve said yes to others (like oral sex).

Please note that I have covered RACK, SSC, AND PRICK, which are consent practices in The ABC of BDSM. This is simply a different take on the same subject. I have also shared a cool video about consent in WHY I FEEL SAFER IN A FETISH CLUB THAN A BAR, but added it again below for easiness 🙂 Enjoy!

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