The blog post you didn't know you needed today
The other day, I came across this image, that had two of my favourite things on things on it: consent AND fries!!!
So I thought I would share it and here it is. Consent is like Fries.
Understanding consent is as easy as FRIES.
Consent is:
- Freely given. Doing something sexual with someone is a decision that should be made without pressure, force, manipulation, or while drunk or high.
- Reversible. Anyone can change their mind about what they want to do, at any time. Even if you’ve done it before or are in the middle of having sex.
- Informed. Be honest. For example, if someone says they’ll use a condom and then they don’t, that’s not consent.
- Enthusiastic. If someone isn’t excited, or really into it, that’s not consent.
- Specific. Saying yes to one thing (like going to the bedroom to make out) doesn’t mean they’ve said yes to others (like oral sex).
Source: Planned Parenthood.
Please note that I have covered RACK, SSC, AND PRICK, which are consent practices in The ABC of BDSM. This is simply a different take on the same subject. I have also shared a cool video about consent in WHY I FEEL SAFER IN A FETISH CLUB THAN A BAR, but added it again below for easiness 🙂 Enjoy!
