Club Femdom
Celebrating the supremacy of the Female Dominant, with emphasis on style, glamour and high protocol service.
Last August, Club Femdom returned to The Hatch for a night that celebrated the elegance, power, and allure of the Femdom community. Basically my kind of night out 🙂
Unlike Club Pedestal, which generally only has one room that is high protocol, Club Femdom has high protocol across the entire venue.
The atmosphere and vibe is a little less cheery and a bit more serious and stern, which might discourage some people but very much entice other *wink wink*. So it really depends on what you are into.
Visit their website club-femdom.com
The Venue and Atmosphere
The Hatch was backdrop for the event, which is split across a couple of levels. There is a main room in the middle with furniture for play, the stage, and the Deejay, as well as other smaller areas for foot worship, chilling on couches, and an outside smoking area.
As soon as you walk in, there is a large cloakroom where you can drop your things, in case you are coming wearing vanilla clothes, and plan to get changed inside. Further down there is a cosy area with couches and a curtain separating the changing area for the Dommes. The subs can get changed in the men’s toilets downstairs.
The main room downstairs had the stage, the deejay (the wonderful Qou), the dancefloor, and well as some furniture. There was a large trample cage, a spanking bench, a chair (for some fun torturing of course), and various stools that came in very handy when you needed to deliver a quick spank 😀
The dedicated foot worship area, was dimly lit, with a sort of sultry vibe. Plenty of seating space as the place was not too crowded. Next to it, it was the stairs to get to the smoking area, which was pretty small, but never too busy (everyone was obviously busy doing kinky stuff).
The space felt pretty lux, and well thought out, with an atmosphere of opulence and discipline.
Bondage horse that I like (available on Etsy).
The House Subs and Dommes
One of the key features of the event is the team of House Dommes and House subs. They were attentive and always ready to service, which was nice and showed the club’s commitment to maintaining a quality experience.
Whether you were a Domme or a sub, there was something for everyone.
Dress Code and Protocols
Club Femdom aims at holding a very strict protocol, and therefore, in a way, the dress code reflects that.
The theme was sort of fetish glamour for the female identifying Dommes, and the House Dommes channeled some 1950s elegance.
The slaves and submissives were either in plain black clothes and a collar (collars are mandatory for all submissives), or opted for more fetish attire if they wanted to get the attention of the Club’s Dommes.
The high protocol throughout also set Club Femdom apart from other parties, as most parties have a more relax approach and protocol.
The attention to detail and well-enforced house rules really helped setting up the mood and vibe. However, should you have any doubts or are if you are unsure about your outfit or anything else, you can just reach out to them directly.
Need help putting an outfit together?
Here are a couple of blog posts about Joining the kink community (JTKC):
Part 6 – You are going to a party and want to dress up for it and Part 7 – Style, Clothes, Final Touches, to get inspired.
Overall
The event felt a little crowded, yet cosy. Although it’s not a very large event, it really did packed a punch (pun very much intended). There were spaces to have conversations in quieter corners, and plenty of opportunities to explore, connect, and play with other guests.
There was also a sort of lotto going on, where all the Dommes wrote their names on a board and a (volunteered) sub was randomly assigned to them. I thought that really helped getting guest to know each other.
In short, whether you’re new to the Femdom scene or a regular, Club Femdom at The Hatch was a fun night.
I would of course strongly encourage guests to attend munches and other more relaxed parties before venturing into a high protocol one.