Looks like 2021 predictions were right… I guess this year wasn’t completely bad after all.
Archives for 2022
JTKC part 5: getting ready to go to a party
Found a kinky party you like… are you going solo? With a friend? What are you boundaries? Welcome to part 5 of joining the kink community
Party review: Halloween at Torture Garden
Torture Garden has been going on for 30+ years, and since the last one I attended was before I started blogging… I thought it was time for another one!
Kink community: Meet the Kink Shrink
Time for an interview with a therapist, a BDSM and sex educator that’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! I love my little hobby 🙂
Just for fun: miracle cures in the 1800s
We were always kinky. We just needed an excuse to do kinky things to cure *insert random reason*. Read to know more…
JTKC part 4: pick a kinky party that works for you
You want to go to your first kinky party… how do you find the right one for you? Welcome to part 4 of joining the kink community 🙂
Podcast review: The Naked Truth by KK
It has been a while since I wrote reviews about KK parties or workshops so I thought of writing about their podcast, published during our first lockdown.
Kink community: a London-based Dominatrix
Thrilled to be able to interview a professional dominatrix, a BDSM educator, and a fetish club promoter, who’s been in the industry for the 20+ years!! How exciting!
Podcast review: Hot Money
This podcast is hosted by the Financial Times. It’s about porn, power, and profit. I recommend a listen if you want to hear the real story, full of surprises!
Book review: 101 Kinky Things by Kate Sloan
Need some inspiration? That’s the book for you! This book is simple, short, and direct while covering all the essential that you might need to start.
When an Italian porn actor stars in a documentary…
‘Rocco’ is a 2016 French documentary film, co-directed by Thierry Demaizière and Alban Teurlai. About a porn-star, who made history in Italy.
Happy BDSM Day!!
Did you know that July 24th is International BDSM Day? YAY! How are you celebrating? I am going to browse some cool IG accounts (and do some NSFW stuff).
Podcast review: Glow West
Glow West is a series of interviews with academics, sex educators, sex workers, activists, and more, discussing sex, sexuality, and the body.
Latex news: Gimp masks at the Stock Exchange?
What has gimp masks and takes place at the Stock Exchange?
Event review: La Clique
Do you love circus? Live performers? Great cabaret? Pimms? That’s definitely the place for you (and for me, I am a sucker for a good Pimms)
JTKC part 3: meet kinksters online and take a good dick pic
Welcome to part 3 of joining the kink community! Bonus content: 5 tips to take a good dick pic because I’m tired of seeing penises in tiny cages
Just for fun: Kink Map!
Have you ever wondered how many kinks and fetishes are out there? Let’s travel using this map of kinks which I think it’s cool 🙂
Just for fun: skimpy undies for men? yes please!
I would kill for a sexy man in sexy undies (I would kill a spider, and I am stupidly scared of spiders).
Podcast review: Off the Cuffs
Off the Cuffs: a Kink & BDSM Podcast, for those in the lifestyle and those who are curious.
Party review: Thirst Friday
I don’t know about you, but I am a sucker for 90s rock. And even if you are not, at Thirst there is something for everyone!
Party review: Valentine’s Noir by Nude Noir
Nude Noir events are said to be playful and seductive, in refined and decadent venues around the world. Let’s take a closer look.
Just for fun: collection of dreadful DMs from FetLife
Here are some messages I have received on FL that are simply dreadful.
Party review: The Fox Den Winter Wonderland
Following the Social I reviewed last time, THE FOX DEN organised its own very first party – Victoriana – and it was just beautiful ♥ ♥ ♥
JTKC part 2: online messaging
You decided that you’re ready, and want to join the kink community. What’s next? Recently I wrote about creating a profile on FL. Welcome to part two 🙂
JTKC part 1: creating an online profile
You decided you want to check out your local kink community… Now what? Some steps about joining FetLife.
Social Review: Munches in London
After my last post on Munches: dos and don’ts, where I covered what a munch is and where to find them, I wanted to review some of the London munches.